What do you say or do to a guy that calls you his bitch or property? Also what does it realy mean when he says that?

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He has written it on my hand, said it in front of the guys, and told I'm his bitch and always will be.

Jessica55555 · Accepted Answer

It depends in which way he is saying that and how close you are to your friends in front of whom he saying that to you, i had a similar kind of thing with my hubby, he was kind of like that saying i am his bitch i am his whore or i am his property, it feels alright until it transforms into anything else, my husband said it in away that i belongs to him that means i am his partner i am his wife and no one can touch other than him, it happens in front of friends too but the friends who are really friends not time pass persons

It can be a way of telling them about our kinky life which should happen with consent or with a mutual feelings or kink, i remembers him writing you are mine on my hand just in private

Apulu_3 · Accepted Answer

Tell him, "You are my Moron and always will be :) " like seriously why does that immature bastard needs to insult you. Oh yeah he is immature bastard that is why he is insulting you. Or don't reply him. When he says why you aren't listening to him then also don't reply. If someone else asks from his behalf then say, "Sorry but my ears are expensive to listen words from a crappy mouth" or "My ears are rubbish proof" . I would have roasted him till he stops if I was in your place. Just ignore the barking dogs just like you ignore them in streets. He is calling you bitch right? Show him being a boss bitch.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

It means he’s a fuckwit with zero respect for you,

he’s likely the type that would do the same to a number of girls and not think twice about it, he would just dump as he feels like it.

The type of person to avoid at all times.

Yes it can be a sign of Dominance, however there needs to be a sign of respect, as this is where your limits and boundaries come in to it and importantly Consent.

While some girl or guy may say they are for it, they expect some level of respect and consent, which means they are happy with it but on their terms.. which is not the same as being told you are without that choice.

motownplayer2000 · Accepted Answer

So it him expressing an alpha male dominance over them and most importantly over you. Now, if you feel like that is unacceptable or you don’t like it. Let him know. You aren’t property of anyone. We left slavery like that in the past. It’s one thing to say that in bed when your fucking. But if you out saying that. That to me is a red flag. Meaning he may try to control everything you do. Too me, I would sit him down and let him know that that’s not what’s going to happen. But again, if you are ok with it, and like it. Then you have to toe that line and work it out.

Tweetybirdii · Answer

Ok honestly, this generation really loves calling themselves bitches for some odd reason. Everyone is a bad bitch, boss bitch, savage bitch, pretty bitch etc….
So yea he more than likely didn't mean to be disrespectful. I personally take it as disrespect but thats prob because i do not refer to myself as bitch …. but by all means if you call yourself bitch like the rest of this generation then 🤷🏽‍♀️He is actually giving you a “compliment” .

420Rachel · Answer

Oh hell no. You need to tell him to fuck off and to leave you alone. Don't let anyone say things like that about you.

Interstate · Answer

You tell him you want it to stop because you find it demeaning, insulting and disrespectful (to say the least). It means he doesn't take your relationship seriously. It usually means that to him, you are just something to get him what he wants at his beck and call.

Genie23 · Answer

The heck? That guy is a jerk and he doesn't respect you. He wants to show his dominance around others by calling you his bitch and his property in front of others. He doesn't care if you feel humiliated.

Break up with him or you'll really regret it a lot later.

laurieluvsit · Answer

That is a dominant's term of endearment. He is claiming you as his submissive. If that is not what you want, you had better let him know.

jshm2 · Answer

In young guys it's just daft testosterone fuel.

But in your twenties and older you push back and get in his face about it.

Unless it's your kink or you're a sub. But even then, it's only good until it's fun. When the fun stops, be prepared to stop it dead.

PrettySure · Answer

If it is just "bedroom play" then I can overlook it. But if he is calling me that all the time and especially in public it means he doesn't respect me. What I have done in those situations is show the guy I don't respect him. What I do before breaking up with guys like that usually involves me sleeping with his friend or just some stranger while on the phone with him and with a lot of enthusiasm explaining why the other guy is so much better.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend told me last week over text" can you be my slave?"
I felt ofended since i m black and he is white. But I tried to not be angry at him because maybe he meant somethings else.
So I texten back " what kind of slave? Sex slave?
He said " yeah"
I said " sure, but only If you are my sex slave too, because I also like to be dominant"
He didn't text back that day🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

RealMarek · Answer

He is saying he owns you. Statements like that need to be taken seriously just in case the guy is a psychopath. You need to avoid being alone with him, tell him to stop immediately, and given your age you should also tell your parents and a teacher.

Djaay · Answer

Because of your age... he's accually repeating the mentality of young guys away from girls how they talk about girlfreinds. he's accually arbitrating the lingo directed at his male audiance to stay away. Is it wrong on all levels? YES. Is it stupid ass lingo and very offfending? YES. Is he being offensive towards females in genral? YES. Is he worth staying away from? YES ON ALL LEVELS.

Emilymaybebabys · Answer

It depends on if you like it or not. a lot of people have names for each other. My boyfriend calls me stuff like that all the time but I know some people hate it. It's up to you.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Fucker would get told to go eat laxatives so he can hopefully stop saying bullshit. You say he's still pretty much a stranger. Red flags and alarms are ringing hard.

SweetFyter · Answer

Well, it says he was raised with NO morals AND what it really means is he'll never be a friend of mine or in my circle. I don't know anyone this pathetic - thankfully!

Gorge95 · Answer

Any man that thinks degenerate terms, mainly from pop culture, is a way to refer to women needs none of your attention. Please stop even associating yourself with people like that.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

Means that he has no respect for you and you'd probably be better off without him as he seems possessive.

Ginevra1998 · Answer

Depends who it is. If its a random guy, probably slap him. If its someone I know, probably slap him and never talk to him again. If its my boyfriend I'd probably grab his balls and squeeze a bit harder and harder and then stop and say he better not call me his bitch because he's under my control at all times.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

What you say is, "Fuck off!!" What you do is walk!! What it means is that he's a fucking disrespectful PIG that's not good enough to be seen with you!! What he wants is trailer trash! A prostitute!! A whore!!

Diosa · Answer

I'd say move on , you are young and don't need to be with someone like that , you have your whole life to find a good boyfriend that will treat you the way you should be treated, properly and with respect

also ignore some of those idiotic comments some of those so called "men" have made , disgusting, I wonder if their mothers would be proud of that language to a kid.

SaoirseS · Answer

What I’d say? “The only reason I’m letting you live is because I don’t want to go to prison? Hit the road, Jack.”

spartan55 · Answer

Why are you with a guy who has zero respect for you? Geez have some self respect.

Staximus · Answer

It means he's a worthless piece of shit who doesn't respect you. Get rid of that guy immediately. That's the kind of guy who will get you pregnant and then disappear and never help you take care of a baby.

Cherry234 · Answer

He's disgusting. It means he doesn't actually respect women. If I were you I'd dump him.

the_bruh · Answer

Sounds like he's having possive issues. He's just trying to say don't ever leave me in his own language.

reyesdavina · Answer

I don't like it. I'm my own person and having someone think that way is not someone i want to be around.

KarinMcDonald · Answer

that doesn't even deserve a response. Leave that #@&%$#@ before it's too late!

TrueConfection · Answer

If some guy said that to my daughter, I'd confront him and it wouldn't be nice.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would block him. Life is too short to waste on people who don’t know good behaviour.

InYourHead · Answer

When guys call me their bitch or slut I Ghost them till they learn some manners

BillyBalls · Answer

Why is it that in some culture that type of language is acceptable. The word "bitch" is not a flattering word. I try like hell to avoid bitches.

anton_dee · Answer

Isolate yourself from such narcissists.  When hHesays that he means he owns you. That itself implies he don't know what relationship is all about.

Subarugirl · Answer

It means that he doesn't respect you, and sees you as an object instead of an equal. RUN!

Sum1Stpd · Answer

Run. And dont associate yourself with people like that.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

No dude has had the balls to say that to me and I would never allow it.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Kick him in his balls he will hit the ground and leave you the f*** alone

May_Summers · Answer

I kinda like that. But not okay if you are not in a relationship with him.

annabananna · Answer

I would laugh and say that’s what you think? That’s cute you think that

In_Trance · Answer

At your age (s), I doubt either of you understand what that actually means. Lol, hence why you ask what he really means

dragoblack · Answer

He said it to be "dominant assertive." But in that situation he just comes across as a possessive asshole

Babygirl_S · Answer

Never happened to me. I think it means he doesn't respect you.

MountAverage · Answer

Tell him to stop immediately. He doesn't respect you and abuses you. Get away from him.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate us when guys think that their male authority makes them our owners!!!

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

He thinks that you belong to him and he controls you. Not worth staying with a POS like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Know your role and shut your mouth. Now go make me a sandwich.

Busybreakingbadboy · Answer

It means he's not ashamed of his place as a man and keeping you in your place as a woman

Agape93 · Answer

Deck him. I'm nobody's property.

Crepe_tart · Answer

BIG ASS RED FLAG RIGHT THERE

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Dump him unless you like that

elizamichale1 · Answer

well i dont mind being called out like that

Seinna · Answer

You leave, that's the only way to prove him wrong.

Immanuel_thefirst · Answer

Ohh no do not allow that at all

Anonymous · Answer

There's a guy I would like to call me that

Juan_Sheet · Answer

Ditch him. Sounds like a douchebag.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

He doesn't respect you

GlassTop · Answer

He wouldn’t do it unless you let him or wanted it.

MickHardin · Answer

It means that you're his bitch and always will be.

Anonymous · Answer

It means he has no respect for you.

DWornock · Answer

Typical of silly white girls dating a m! gg*r.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I believe he or She is a Fag

Anonymous · Answer

Trying to be edgy and failing

jimmy2 · Answer

He trying to control you

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