Why is he ignoring me?

[Anonymous]

So we was talking for a while he was the one who approached to me he would always say hi and then he would even come when I would tell him to come to me a whole month he started acted distant and telling me what do you want now he tells me he don’t want me anymore when we never been together he is my coworker every time we see each other at work we ignore each other

[Vikkrram]

There's 2 reason i guess..

1. He might be not comfortable around you anymore

2. He may have feelings for you but he sensed that you don't feel the same way or it's better not to tell you or to talk you coz anyone can understand anyone's feelings for them just by looking and talking wid them. So he basically have started ignoring you.

[Asker]

I would tell him to come to me almost every time I got to see him or I would make the move and come to him

[Vikkrram]

Then i would say ask him... at least you have both chatted earlier...

[Asker]

Actions tells it all we have been ignoring each other for about a month and see each other at work and puts no effort to ask

[Vikkrram]

But why you ignoring him coz he have started to ignore you that's why?

[Asker]

Yes he told me that and I left him alone it’s been a whole month ignoring each other at work and we see each other face every day and don’t make an effort to Ask what’s going on I let it be

[BarryLiverstone]

He came to you and did what?

[Asker]

Come to talk when I would tell him to come

[BarryLiverstone]

How many dates did you go on?

[Asker]

None just at work

[BarryLiverstone]

So he said you never had a date, so he doesn’t want to talk anymore

[Asker]

Yeah I left it alone I walk past him like he don’t exist he does the same not even a hi or nothing

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok so you understand why he ignores you?

[Asker]

No it’s been a whole month doing this ignoring and he don’t show effort to talk to me and he has my number too I left it like that

[BarryLiverstone]

So he said you never had a date, so he doesn’t want to talk anymore right?

[Asker]

I guess

[Emanon25]

I guess he isn’t interested