Guys seem creeped out when they open their eyes whilst kissing me and my eyes are already open. Why?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

like we are kissing I close my eyes for the first 3 secs then I keep them open. when they open theirs and see me already looking at them they look seriously weirded out or even confused

I MUST look very ugly close up because they always look back down / close their eyes quickly or even frown and make a what the fuck” face… bare in mind all this is happening mid-kiss.

[RawIronhide]

Lol y'all's experiences are so weird. I don't know the only time I ever kissed someone it was encouraging to make eye contact from time to time, also to take a brake here n there and just enjoying the moment. I never acted like the person I'm kissing isn't in the room with me or whatever lol. Sounds like ur just sucking face to suck face.

[normalice]

Open eyed kissing is an indication that you are trying to determine their reaction instead of trying to enjoy yourself. This wouldn't be a problem except that people who prioritize other people's reactions usually turn out to be insecure or scammers.

[dustybiker]

You made me laugh out loud at this. 🤣 It would be a a bit funny to me. (No offense intended)

[dustybiker]

*ignore that extra “a”. I edited, but not enough evidently.

[bowenw]

They are probably a little embarrassed that you caught them peeking.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know. If I open my eyes and hers are already open it means we’re on the same page. I think that’s a good time to stare into each other’s eyes.

[Anonymous]

With good reason. What kind of psychopath kisses with their eyes open?

[Anonymous]

It's unusual but I wouldn't mind. If I want to kiss her it means I think her eyes are pretty

[Staximus]

Sounds like a coward