Boyfriend says goodnight but then stays up all night?

[Anonymous]

Firstly I know I'm probably being insecure and this question is silly..

For the past few months my boyfriend has been doing more all nighters and staying up at night, I used to stay round his often but found it hard to sleep when he would stay up and that I was over thinking more/had bad feeling

Sometimes he'll say goodnight but then be active all night on discord etc which means there's PC activity, then In the morning when we say goodmorning he says he didn't sleep or didn't get much sleep due to waking up.. when I ask what he was up to he says YouTube or reddit (used to be really active on reddit but isn't as much anymore) and other random things.. he works full time and his shifts change every week so he is then usually tired during the day etc, I'm hoping because or change of works patterns disrupt his sleep routine

Can't help but wonder if he is doing other things all night, guys could and would you be able to spend all night on YouTube etc because you couldn't sleep? Worried he is talking to another girl who's from a different country or watching cam girls etc

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

All you can do is just ask him and talk to him about it.
Otherwise you’re just going to drive yourself insane by trying to figure it out.

[Avicenna]

None of us can say for sure what he's doing, but when I've done stuff like that, I wasn't communicating with other women.

[IMuser]

Are you sure he didn't said good night to you because you were sleeping? A simple good night is an ambiguous message

[spartan55]

So stupid. If you don't trust him why are you with him?

[Anonymous]

He’s a dorky loser who takes his girlfriend for granted. I doubt he’s talking to another girl since he’s lucky he found even one to tolerate his shit. Probably just porn and gaming all night.

[MzAsh]

You’re grossly overestimating his options.

[Iron_Man]

He Is a night owl