I've seen this happen with some good friends of mine, where he couldn't seem to understand her parents rules, despite them being adults. I know my boyfriend and I aren't technically allowed to spend the night together(we're nearly at our 2 year mark and highly committed), but it's only because of our parents, because we still live with them.
He has to understand this. If you do want to spend the night, let him know, make sure he knows that if you could, you would. There is a frustration about not falling asleep in that special someone's arms. It sucks. He wants to hold you and know that you're there.
Though I'll say this(and this isn't intended to be anything horrible against you or whatever), but I don't get getting use to something like that, especially if you're with someone(and for that long). I understand those rules always being in place, but not really accepting them, even if you do(ie. not arguing them, but not being happy with them). This may raise a small red flag to him. Almost a "why don't you want to sleep with me?". Sex is one thing, but sleeping with someone is another...in my opinion, it's more intimate...
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If you two haven't had sex yet his "it feels like we've been dating for 6 months instead of 2 years..." is just most likely his way of saying what most guys feel it's not a relationship must less a serious relationship until I f*ck you.
he is trying to get laid.
ignore him, he sounds kind of immature.
Just because it's not necessary to you doesn't mean it's not necessary to him. You're talking a lot about how he doesn't understand you, but you don't seem to be trying hard to understand him. Are you talking about sex, or just spending the night?
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