Why do guys hit on me in public doing everyday errands but rarely at the club?

[Anonymous]

[ChrisMaster69]

Really depends on the club, type, numbers of people, types of guys, what other girls are wearing, you are wearing, if with friends who are approachable or not.

it’s not always possible to approach and chat to some groups in clubs, whereas outside in street or quieter locations it is.

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe you're less intimidating doing random errands than when at the club

[Asker]

Good point

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Maybe you’re more noticeable in public places like that rather than in a club that is probably loud and packed with other people.

[Asker]

That’s a possibility 👍🏽

[sbnalenon]

Basically clubs means more competition, and you may go unnoticed or maybe in future you'll have a good one

[Asker]

Definitely. In the future have a good club?

[Asker]

Yeah they mostly do a lot of lurking around. And some eye contact but a lot don’t say anything

[sbnalenon]

Have a good time in future, with guys hitting you in clubs ,☺️

[Asker]

👌🏽

[noohair]

It is the vibe that you put out.

[Asker]

I’ve heard similar things to this. I don't know what vibe you’re supposed to be giving out besides having a good time lol

[noohair]

There is your unconscious mind that stores trauma and pain. You can exercise the demons with psychotherapy.

[Asker]

Oh wow wasn’t expecting that lol