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We don't only care about sex, we care about bacon too 😂You'll find that as men get older they do care about you as a friend and as a person, but at your age their lifes mission is to get their end away.
Not all of us don't :).
Cultured, traditional and religious guys still exist but it depends where you are looking.
So you’re telling me you actually care about your friends who are girls?
I don't believe in opposite gender friendships. Or at least getting too close due to personal experiences and added to it my religious beliefs. Being acquaintances is all good and keeping it to subjects of matter keeps everyone in limits, otherwise you never who's planning what and things can be very indirect.. Too complicated to care. Sure, I can care for them and help them out but nothing more than that if I don't see a potential serious relationship that will eventually lead to marriage.
You’re right I learned that the hard way. Thought I had guy friends but we were never on the same page
I learnt it the hard way too xD. I tried being friends, complications arose every time and few girls said that I acted like I knew everything about their interest, just used them for attention while the truth was I used to be so aloof. But oh well. More we know now. :D
I treat women equally to men. I only want sex with the one I marry,(after we marry, and with more interest in romance), and easily can be and have been casual friends. (Regardless of being a very lonely person.) Even if I find a woman very attractive, I know how and when to keep my distance. (If not too much. lol) I always see everyone as humans.
Forgive me for being turned on by that lol. You might hate me or block me but it always makes me really horny to hear a woman complaining about men wanting sex so much.
I don't know if you're joking or telling the truth 🥴🤨
@AndeeLuv Nope, not joking at all lol. I know, it's probably bad but I've always been like that. I guess it's just hot that a woman is getting annoyed from male sexuality or male desires, maybe because it's so feminine. I don't know why it's hot, it just is lol.
😂😂😂
@Babybebe15 All I want is sex lol.
Because some people of the male sex can be utter pigs, who think with their penis more than with their brains, but not all men who are like that.
There are some men out there, myself included, enjoy women's company for the sake of their company and shower them in cuddles for being amazing people.
Because sociality we promote the idea still, after everything that has happened and after more and more revelations about the abuses of the rich and powerful, still we enforce the idea that women are sex objects first, people second 😔
Testosterone, also maybe you should gain some weight, it could help. :)
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeerGoggles
Why do women have to objective us? Not as sex objects but you treat us like play things, like a fucking cute teddy Bear, women love to emasculate their male friends. It's offensive that you could spend so much time with a single guy when you're a single girl and not even consider him worthy of being a sexual partner, so don't act like y'all don't objective us to, you don't treat us like people, more like a toy, tool or an appliance, just to be used when convenient then put away till next time.
you're kinda right but also wrong
men can care about other stuff AFTER the hunger of sex is sated
men can wan't 2 things from you. sex... or sex plus other things.
so it isn't that we just want sex but we need sex before other things can be taken care of
I'd like to give you a perspective that's rarely discussed.. Women talk. A whole lot with their network of other women that say some of the nastiest shit I've ever heard! Inside of that, men just want to hit it and quit it based on ridiculous expectations.
Why do women only care about money and other things that relate to finance?
We men are humans too so why can’t they love us for being humans? Why do they only see us as something they can exploit? Why is “what you do for a living” one of the first questions they ask you when you show interest in them?
Also judging by your profile picture I can tell you that you are the main common denominator in this algebra problem
Not all men care about sex. Their is still nice and decent guys out their. The bad apples ruin everything for all. Their is also some women out their that only care about sex and are freaks. So it could go either way with that.
"Why are we objectified?", asks the person whose profile picture is a chick in trashy lingerie.
Men do care about other things.
It's just that some women do not have things to offer to men other than sex.
Maybe you are one of those women.
I’m literally a virgin.
Doesn’t matter whether I've had sex or not I’m just trying to show you that your point is invalid
Your actual sexual behavior is irrelevant.
It's how you present yourself and the things that seemingly matter to you.
You don't want to be objectified, you claim to have a university degree and yet you present yourself with a trashy, objectifying profile picture.
Can't blame people for assuming that you are ok with being objectified, when you are literally doing it to yourself.
If you also do it in person and not just on here, well then I can totally see why.
Honestly and truly I can’t be asked to debate my life with a stranger on the internet so have a good day sir.
@alyssa_11 You being a virgin is irrelevant. You're showing off your body in a objectified way and then complain why people take you for a sexual person. @ky-a Thank you for pointing out the very obvious. But as you have seen, it has fallen on deaf ears. Girls like her aren't mature enough to take responsibility of their own actions. Because in their eyes, it's always MEN's fault.
And as you can see, she ran with her tail between her legs as soon as she got intellectually challenged about the obvious.
No I actually had a life and haven’t been online in a few days LOL
@alyssa_11 Your previous replied indicated that you had no valid counter arguments to bring. So this whole 'question' of yours is an obviously cry for validation rather than genuinely seeking answers. But like myself and many others have said, stick to your wishful thinking.
I’m a man and I don’t care about sex at all. I plan to stay virgin until I die. All I hear is that it feels good. Doesn’t seem like it to me though. The only thing I use my dick for us to take a piss 🤷🏻♂️
U just threw a cap at me bro 🧢
I have no idea what that means 😂
She called you a liar, cap=lie
Ah, well, I know I’m not lying. The fact that she doesn’t believe me doesn’t change that
Never heard such bullshit. Sounds more like you atract them types
Also how ironic your question is when you have a profile picture like that hahahahaha my god
And you’re sad cause?
I won't go into details about my dating life because i don't own you anything. But i am doing brilliantly there ;)
And I wouldn’t care to know
What a baby you are, buhu
Such generalization - Many men can also claim that women care only about looks and money & status. Keeping them around in the friendzone, getting them to pay for activities but not giving anything in return.
Because as the generations pass on, more and more of these guys are appearing. Those rare few, like yours truly, are being outbred. I honestly look at most guys I pass on the street or at the shops and I cannot understand how they can call themselves men.
There's so much more to a woman than just her bra size, I only wish more people understood that. The other sad truth is that a great deal of women find these ignorant guys attractive.
well, i dunno if its that we only want sex, i mean sometimes we want a girl to love, its jus that, a lot of the time we can't be bothered to make an effort for a relationship or jus wanna use 99,9 percent of girls for sex, cos a lot of the time we can't be bothered to look for love or... u know what i mean, we jus want a fuck buddy
I blame social anxiety, that's what makes me too lazy for a relationship, anxiety makes coming up with things to say N worrying about saying the wrong thing too much effort, so it's easier jus to look for hookups. If guys had more high self esteem we might try to look for relationships more, I think.. thus is jus my guesses
Because they’re mindless pigs. They don’t have a mind. The pornographic internet has changed MAJORITY of them. Also keep an eye on the type of crowd you hang with. If they’re all party boys and they have minimum wage jobs.. then there’s your answer.
Can I ask you a question
We guys don't ONLY care about sex, but it is ear the top of the list. Why? Because of the three Ts... testosterone, tits and testes. The male body is built to have sex... often.
Its the need to breed. The inner cave man, survival of the strongest.
At least till 2030
What happens after 2030
@Tstrbrainer look it up, its all over the internet
Nothing came to my notice. Any keyword?
2030 loool
Try not using Google for a search engine
Good thing you are just blanket blaming guys. Guys are wired for sex. Especially at your age, it is just about all we think about. Doesn't mean we don't care for the woman.
Well I’m my life experience a lot of guys are definitely like that they don’t know a thing about being a gentleman. Not every guy is like that but you can usually pick em out of a crowd. I can honestly say I wasn’t like that I’m still married after 24 years..😊👍👍
The irony of this question coming from a woman with your profile pic is fucking hilarious. Thanks for the laugh. Laughter is healthy so I appreciate your efforts.
You literally just proved my point. Why does my photo matter? Why can a guy pose shirtless and a woman can’t?
If you think my comment proves your point, then you're dumber than I realized.
If you willingly objectify yourself, you are begging to be objectified. If it comes as a surprise to you then you are dumb as a rock.
Call me whatever but don’t call me dumb cause I’m not.
"Why do guys treat me like a slut when I dress like a slut? I don't understand."
Yeah, you're dumb.
Genuinely shut the fuck up
If someone wears a police officer uniform, it seems common sense that people are going to think they are a police officer and treat them like one. The same is true for women who dress like sluts. Common sense stuff here.
If I just wanted sex I'd have the body count of a hooker. Sex without love is empty and tbh a sad thing. I did it once and never again till I found that real, serious connection
Not all guys only care about sex. Believe it or not there are guys who care about their: family, pets, friends, health, hobbies, career etc.
Some women make it difficult to care about them for more than their bodies.
Also, why are women objectified? Because women openly objectify themselves. Porn. Onlyfans. Instagram. I just found this question 20 second ago...
Guys, is my ass too big for anal? ↗
Hard not to see women in a certain way when they're sticking their asses out for you all the time.
@alyssa_11
some of us care about you right up to the point when you start moaning and complaining and being glass half empty then you just annoy us ;)
That’s a good point 🤣
@alyssa_11
girls should just go with the flow and take good with the bad also guys like sex lots of sex and girls that are adventurous with sex if u are always washing your hair then we get fed up frustrated and less inclined to get shit done
@alyssa_11
fancy hooking up some time?
They don't and I'm sorry you see men in such a generalized stereotypical way.
Well thank you for being nice about it. If only the others were.
I try to be nice and it's hard to read tone sometimes but yeah it's not all it's some. Some can still be a lot of people so I understand the frustration.
IF we do, it's PROBABLY because WE NEVER GET ANY!!!
Also, we make a few million sperm every day and that gives us this GREAT need to give them away as often as possible.
As for me, I mostly think about records and music. No point in thinking about something that rarely ever comes my way and probably never will, again!
I can care about you for you, I can also wanna smash. They aren’t mutually exclusive. Humans are inherently sexual beings what’s wrong with that?
cos we like being alone, we objectify males too, if objectify means not wanting to get to know someone... cos i have no desire for a relationship, or love, i dont need anyone and i like being alone, but at the end of the day im still a human being with sexual desires, since most people watch porn, i dont think its unnatural for a man to try and get the "real thing"... it would be sad not to try so u can't blame us, girls have sexual urges too
The real question should be why you care so much about sex? You're just projecting your trash onto others. Your profile picture read SEX. Come on! You're just trolling.
We can say the same thing about women. How high is your body count? A girl means more to me than just sex, a friend, companion, lover, a human being with feelings. Why do so many women like to hook up?
That's a gross generalization.
Just my experience
And it's wrong to post a question about all men based on your own experience.
Maybe ask yourself why the men in your own life only want sex.
And no one can answer that but them
It’s not wrong this a forum for men and women to express themselves. I’ve expressed myself and so have you by commenting.
Is it that bad already? I hope you find a different guy someday because it shouldn't be like that.
If they didn't human would be extinct. Imagine guys spending all their time playing games and hanging out with friends!
Welcome to planet Earth and boys in your age range. It changes with a lot of guys when they grow up and they find a mate of their own. Give it about 10 years.
That's what happens when you only keep meeting fuckboys. They're almost the only ones doing the approaching and they don't care about rejection. They care only about sex. Normal men don't do that often. Since almost none of you girls ask us out. That's what you and we get.
Well, we don't care ONLY about sex. There's fast cars, great booze and good music. But, sex is right at the top of the list. Why? Because it feels really, really, really good. What other reason do you need?
Men don't care just about sex, fuckboys do.
If you don't like fuckboys behaving like fuckboys then you don't have to hang around with them.
Ummmmmmm... I'm a man who cares a lot about sex?😬 Lol.
Only used up worthless man-whores so much about sex and not men.
*... care so much about..
Some PEOPLE just care about sex.
I can't even recall all the married women and women with boyfriends
that just wanted some dick and then leave them alone.
Why H0ES only care about dudes with lots of money, status and looks?
They objectify MEN by how much money they have so what's the difference?
That was quite dramatic bro
I don't think that's true. Hubby certainly doesn't, although he likes it very much. (So do I.) Neither do my brothers, nor my dad, nor my father in law.
They don't only care about sex. They care about others. Their are some pretty good nice ones out there. It's just seems like you haven't been around the right kind of guys.
Cause humanity is fucked up, this is old news, where have you been these past decades?
As if lol. I know some men who really just want to smash and others like myself and my friends who have platonic female friends. I like having female friends because they have insights that men don’t and we can give each other advice on our love lives. Maybe you’re just meeting the wrong guys? Cuz trust me there are some solid men out there. Yes there are tons of creeps and fuck boys but there are good ones too. Good luck on your search.
I don't think all guys are like that and i think assuming all guys are longer that is a dangerous mindset to live in might end up bitter and lonely
Think it’s a bit too late for that lol
I don't objectify you but see you (i. e. a woman whom I find attractive) as someone whom I like to have with, give her as much pleasure as she desires while I'm having fun.
I've got plenty of girl friends who I have zero interest in. I don't see the point of trying to generalize people.
This is an idiotic stereotype,
As a man, I left a relationship cause the relationship was nothing more than sex.
Sex, sex, sex all the time. I need more than just sex.
men only care about sex when that’s all that girl has to offer cuz she’s attractive but her personality is shit. Girls that are genuinely fun and are interesting to be with would never have to ask that question.
@laurieluvsit don't bring women drama into god. LOL. He created you yes. But its your job to make your man happy. After all guys do have options. They don't get it from you they will get it else where. No need for drama. They have tinder.
So women are to serve you as your sex toy?
I don't mind doing that in the bedroom, but what about the rest of the time?
Is this a 24/7 'On-Call' position that we have applied for? ... lol
Definetly not. Happy man at home is a happy home.
So no not sex 24/7 toy definetly.
Does "... its your job to make your man happy" mean as much sex as he wants, whenever he wants?
He would do same for you. Obviously, because its 2 way street. But no restraurant is open 24/7, similarly he can't expect you to be operating for him/her all the time. You both have lives.
Ok, sounds reasonable :)
Its all about communication. No man are hard to understand. Just like you understood now. They just want a decent life. With a loyal woman.
Because they are still boys that haven't awakened and lost their ego.
I find that slightly rewarding. Easy replacement policy, if I break up I'd have a lot of options for dipping my pool into. It's honestly empowering unless the guys force it on you.
Because they are pigs. They doesn’t have a brain in their head but in their pp instead. They treats us like we are walking meat with holes.
It's more like whenever women presents themselves as if they're ready for sex, they just simply like to demonize men's natural behavior and objectify them as if they're just nothing but hungry hyenas. You dont know how men's hormones work. You use your boobs and butts instead of your brains.
We don't, you are just attracted to assholes and idiots, so thats all you experience.
Trust me not all of us do. The ones that are super flirty and easily get women's attention are typically the ones that just want sex.