Why did he tell me that I crush men's masculinity?

[Anonymous]

I asked a help from him which he gladly agreed to help me, when called me. I told him that I might have to take my guy friend's help as the document I am searching is missing, my friend will be able to which one was the required document. In response he told me that I appointed my friend as my guard and I am being careless and I am dependent on my guy friend. That replied saying girls like crushes a guy masculinity. I do not know why he made this comment.

[Waldoe]

He... wants to be your "hero" he wants to be your "champion" and you choose another man without asking him first. You treat him like he is Nothing to you... do you understand? a Man wants to be the first person that his girlfriend will turn to

[Asker]

He is just colleague with whom I am newly friends. I am not his girlfriend. He already has a girlfriend.

[spartan55]

Maybe because you use guys and do nothing in return.

[Asker]

What guys wants in return?

[spartan55]

Friendships are a two way street. If all you are ever doing is asking and taking that's going to put people off.

[Asker]

The friend I am asking for help knows that I am a good friend and knows I will be there for him. I do not know why this new guy told me like this. I have helped this new guy several time in the past. He was not even my friend then.

[spartan55]

Not sure then