Why does he get sad and annoyed when I like another guy or talk about them (we're not dating never been intimate) does he love me?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

It's obvious that he has SOME kind of feelings for you - that can't be denied.

Since this is a MAN we're talking about, you must ALWAYS remember that these "feelings" could be simple sexual attraction OR romantic attraction, but that these are two very distinct categories. Since he knows you and presumably likes your company, the chances of it being romantic attraction are much higher than a random other girl, but it's still probably less than 50% chance that it's romantic, because most of the time, it's purely sexual. And even if it is only sexual, it's still going to be grating and offensive to him to see you with or hear you talking about other guys.

Always remember: you CANNOT be "just friends" with (single, straight) men, because they're incapable of being "just friends" with you - with very few exceptions. You can be friends with men who are already in a happy, healthy relationship, though that's also uncommon, mostly because their wives/girlfriends are jealous or suspicious. A single, straight man who is fortunate enough to easily attract lots of women might also be an exception, as well as a single, straight man with a very low sex drive. But for the vast majority of men, for whom none of these things is true, if they're paying you attention at a level beyond being a mere acquaintance, it's because they're attracted to you - often only sexually, but sometimes romantically. Either way, this means that they can't be "just friends" with you - they will always want more, and that will affect how they treat you and how they behave.

[spartan55]

Not necessarily, guys don't like hearing that shit.

[Asker]

But why, we're not together

[spartan55]

That doesn't matter

[Asker]

So he's just being possessive and territorial?

[spartan55]

He's just mad he's not the one fucking you.

[Asker]

Haha nicely put lol

[HateyouxD]

I'm pretty sure he likes you lol

[Asker]

Really likes do you think,