When a guy you used to talk to months ago leaves you on delivered even when he's on his phone?

[Anonymous]

I'm friends with this guy and his friends, we used to talk back in October of 2021, and we eat lunch together almost everyday (Same class schedule). His friends tell me he's always on his phone and always on snapchat (what we use to text) but he leaves me on Delivered for like 18 hours and sometimes responds. Is he just ignoring me and what should I do? I still want to be friends with him but I don't think he's interested in being friends with me.

[Helotome]

He ain't dating you to talk to you every day. And he is male there's not reason why he should text every single time he is active unless he is your boyfriend.

[Asker]

It's kind of rude to ignore someone's text isn't it? And I only text him very rarely. Not my boyfriend, but we used to be best friends so don't really know what's going on.

[Helotome]

He ain't ignoring you he just to busy with someone probably a crush or connecting with new chicks. I do that all make friends I don't reply to them fast if I am work nor I initiate too.

[DaveJord]

If you're not romanticly interested in this guy and you only want to be friends then quit obsessing over him and got over it. Sounds like this guy is a smart man, guys that have any self respect aren't really interested in just being friends with a women. Especially when she does not show any interest in making it more.

So if you want it to be more then do something about it, but if you just want to be friends and thats it... then be a good friend and leave him alone.

[Asker]

This guy has like a bunch of female friends, and to say I'm obsessing is over-complicating things and over exaggerating.

I see what you're saying though, and thank you for taking the time to answer my question.