When a guy promises he will never stop talking to you, but he stays days without contacting?

[Anonymous]

Also says even though I don’t talk daily to you I always think about you.
Is it gaslighting or is he truly busy..
or
Am I trying to cover shit with sunshine meaning can’t accept the truth…

[Anonymous]

Words mean nothing when actions say otherwise. You’re feeding into a fantasy, don’t do that to yourself.

[Asker]

😔😣😣 I know the truth inside me. But it’s so hard. I thought he is the one. Now I have to restart again at 31! Why is he saying such words. Is it because he feels “bad” or something. I rather prefer the truth. Even today I removed hide his contacts everything. But I feel like crying every 1 hour. I can’t even concentrate with my life and I am doing my MS last semester can’t fail it too..

[Asker]

Somehow suddenly he stays up to 10 days no messages nothing. Yeah.. i know some people would say 10 days I would consider him dead but i thought maybe he is truly busy.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m so sorry, I know how hard it is. Tbh it’s better to start again now than stay with him out of fear of being alone, but you’re already by yourself when he’s not doing the things he’s promised he would do or being the man he says he will be. You deserve better. I know she comes into play, but I mean I’m 30 and in my first real relationship. You never know when your time for love will be but you’ll never find it if you aren’t available to receive it.

[Opinion Owner]

**I know age comes into play, sorry that word got turned into she

[Opinion Owner]

Focus on school, not a man. I know it’s hard but you will feel worse throwing away your hard work on his behalf. I would not respond to another word he says, because you already know he’s full of shit. Only liars fill your head with all those dreams and fantasies then ghost you for days.

[spartan55]

How often do you contact him?

[Asker]

He contacts me weekly recently

[spartan55]

That's not what I asked. Do you ever contact him?

[Asker]

Yes I do he reads it but still replies me days later. Last time he said he is busy and will reply to me when he has day off

[spartan55]

You aren't a priority to him.