How to know he really likes my or my body?

Question

We are in high school, I ingore my crush, we were just make eye contact and always looks at each other (cause my friends say to me he likes my body and not me, and yes he looks at my body, and they say he is not a good boy)
Now he wants me to look at him, and he try and try to take my attention and one of his friends help him and his friend looks at me and they act silly in class to take attention..., so how to know he really likes me or my body?

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

There are a lot of red flags here, but only you know if this is an opportunity that makes sense to you. You say he's your crush, yet you ignore him. Is that a game you're playing, or do you fear playing with fire? It's obvious whether he likes your body or you. If he's more interested in looking and touching than getting to know you as a person, then it's just a physical thing for him. He'll use you to to get his selfish needs met, if that's the case. If he wants you to look at him, then his focus is probably just physical in nature. People who are drawn to you will be interested in learning about your interests, not just satisfying his own. If he truly cares about you, he'll show concern for how his choices might impact you.

Learn from this opportunity. Discover what is truly drawing you to him (is it also just physical?). Make sure the ones you choose to be involved with are healthy people, not self-centered users. Don't get drawn in by superficial attributes or traits. If the package as a whole doesn't have significant value, don't invest. What makes him a bad boy? Do you find yourself drawn to bad boys? Many girls believe bad boys will use their strength to protect them, yet you're more likely to see them use their strength against you than for you. Make sure your eyes are wide open, and ask yourself if you'd want your daughter to get involved with the guy.

How to know he really likes my or my body?

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