What does he want?

[Anonymous]

what am i supposed to do when a guy im talking to told me he went on dates twice?

[SueShe]

Here is the reply I gave to your other account where you asked the very same question.

There is never such a thing as just one time.

If the guy did it once, there is absolutely no reason why he cannot and will not go behind your back a second time. Depending on the outcome and if he thinks he got away with it, he will redo it again and again.

What he did was emotional cheating. He knew beforehand that you would not approve and did it just the same. What conclusion can you draw from that? Right, that he cannot be trusted.

There is only one single reasonable action and that is to separate and sever this toxic relation. If you let it go once, then he knows he can wiggle his way out other times.

By telling you, he just checked your reaction and you did just play his game by forgiving him. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Secret6620]

He probably just wants to get a reaction out of you. See if he can make you jealous.

[Secret6620]

Thank you for most helpful girl!

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he wants to date other people, and you should do the same.

[Avicenna]

Just smile and say, "that's great"

[Iron_Man]

How old well do you know this guy