What does he want?

[Anonymous]

So I really like this guy.. but he’s super hard to read.. I feel like it’s hard to get him to open up. He told me recently that he’s not a feelings guy. He doesn’t even tell his family his feelings. Well I asked him if I should move on and he said “I don’t know” and I said that’s not an answer.. and he said “I want you to do what you want, that’s all I can say right now”.. like he wouldn’t tell me yes or no. Does this guy like me or what? Why can’t he just give me a straight answer?

[Guy13]

Guys don’t talk. Guys understand touch. It’s your decision but don’t force it

[Brando10222]

He's keeping you hanging in between. It's better to move on.

[Asker]

But why is he doing that? Does he have some interest in me?

[Brando10222]

No, idea. But it shows he doesn't care about your feelings

[Mayo503]

What job have he got…?

[Asker]

He’s been in the military for 23 years.

[Mayo503]

Well maybe that’s something to do with it …?
And he can’t talk about it…?
Something going on which he can’t talk about it

[Asker]

I’m not sure.. he’s just very structured.. he’s also been hurt a lot by women and cheated on.

[Mayo503]

Well not sure….. maybe that’s the way he his…

[Asker]

Yeah.. so do you think he does care he just isn’t great at expressing it?

[Mayo503]

I don’t know I couldn’t say…
Sorry I couldn’t help

[Asker]

It’s all good! Thank you