trust me when I say DO NOT GO DOWN THAT ROAD! leave him! as much as you love him LEAVE HIM! he's not worth all this. I was in the same position as you except the racist family,
why should you have to tourtue yourself day after day knowing that when you turn your back hell go with her. do you really want to be dealing with a racist family all your life? his family won't except you even after the baby, they will just blame you, and say that you did it on purpose.
...if he truly loved you like he said he did, he wouldn't be putting you in this position with this other girl. if he wanted the other girl to back off he should man up and tell her.! he's stringing you along because he doesn't know what he wants. and having his baby is only going to make him stay with you because now he is forced to.
its fine if you love him, but you have to love yourself more. and this is settling for something that's not going to be worth it in the end.
try to let him go. it takes months I know. but time does heal. I've learned that first hand
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Whew! I don't even know where to begin. This guy is a class act, girl PLEASE LEAVE HIM. You need to realize you are worth much much more than him and all his mess. All I heard were excuses from him and feeble attempts to try and trap you by saying he wants to have a baby with you. Having HIS baby will only make things worse, I don't know you personally but try and listen to these answers and responses from other people here. Its hard when you are in the situation to think and see clearly, but when advice comes from an objective point of view take it into account. He sounds like a sleaze to me because he is trying to sweet talk you into accepting his bullsh*t. ,and yes I said it, IT IS BULLSHIT! what he did, what he is doing, and what he will do.Do not fall for his "I love you's, don't leave me, and we belong together" crap. Respect yourself and move on girl! you can do better. CUT HIM OFF! SERIOUSLY Hope this helped!
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He couldn't choose, so you have no reason to hang on to him & isn't worth devoting yourself to (since he couldn't even decide to devote himself to you or her!)
Don't even consider about having a baby, that just seem like a blind shot at getting you (forcefully) accepted or stay on with him while he resumes cheating on you in broad daylight. Is this the kind of relationship you want to remain?
How long more does he need to figure it out when he should've figure this out 2 years ago :\
I'd say ignore his whining, & leave him for real. It won't be easy (it'll be hard & painful as heck..) but do what is right for your own integrity & future. Take care!u really need our help...really...really?
Leave his butt!
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