First of all, this guy sounds like a total pain to be with and you need to take his personality and what's going on now between you and him into account for YOU to decide if he really is right for you. In reality, your the one who's in control, not him; you have an equal, if not more, of a say in this potential relationship and so you can decide if you really wanna stick around and wait for this guy cuz there are plenty of other guys in the market… Now, if after taking everything I said into account, and you decided that you still wanna be with him, then let him know that you are the best damn thing in his life and show him that you're worth it ( also, make sure not to embarrass yourself by putting yourself out there too much).
Hope this helps. Stay strong!
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If you truly were the one for him, there would be no hesitation. Don't become someone's second option when you could be their first. Seems to me like he doesn't like you enough, otherwise he would already be with you. No questions asked. If you have to force a guy with an ultimatum, he's not the one for you.
You back off of him... If he knew you were the one he wouldn't be with her. He doesn't seem happy but he's still there men know when they really want a girl they get her no excuses.. You should cut out the text etc let him choose LET him have her... He's playing mind games with you I been there before.
They have unfinished business. At this point I'd say they're both trying to get the other to understand, but they're not going to make anything that works. But it seems as if he's made that decision. Free yourself up a little from him and if he doesn't even notice move on.
Move on and make him deal with her. If he loves you he will move through that relationship end it for good, heal up and come find you. But you need to move forward for now on your own even if you do not date you need to be moving forward and letting him deal with this.
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To add on to what these others have said, you sure you'd want to wait around for him? Positive you and him won't also end up arguing all the time like he and she do? If its meant to be don't wait around. Keep in touch but don't go out of your way to try and get him.
U move on. Don't be someone else's second place prize. If he loved u he wouldn't have went back to his ex in the first place. If u wait around he'll think you'll always wait around for him. I experienced the same thing. Trust me, show him you're not going to wait.
Lol unfortunately you can't be waiting for him and saying you are the best for him because obviously he left you to be with his ex. What you do is tell him how you feel and that he needs to make a choice, if that choice isn't you then you need to move on
if he chose her then he shld be with her and not think about u anymore. since he already made his choice, then u shld remove urself from the complicated equation. winterlyrics.files.wordpress.com/.../option.png
Move on. If he is still holding on to his ex, then there's still something there and he has some issues he needs to resolve. Also, you deserve someone who sees you and wants to stay with you, not to wait on someone who is indecisive and unsure of what he wants.
If I were you,
I would tell him to choose between you and her
If he says you then say something similar to this: Ok, Please dont go back to your ex! Just dont make it sound stalkish/over protective like that. If he does go back to her Drop him.
If he chooses her again. Drop him, Push him out of your life, He obviously doesn't have feelings for you if he keeps on saying your the only one for him then keeps on crawling back to his Ex.Move on, if he can't see what's perfect in front of him, he never will.
Guy will never choose to leave girls. It is better you leave him. And he is bad guy you should know. If he loves you he won't never hurt you.
You move on. Why the hell would you even think about being with this guy? If he truly loved you he wouldn't even be with this other girl.
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