How come I became more myself lately?

[Remnaourei2]

So i act diferent alone or by myself or not around people i know. My body language is looser and more careless. On the train or at work etc im usually very stiff uptight and controlled and stuff. I don't know how 2 explain it.

But lately today all a Sudden at work i am being my true self. Others are chill here. Its not an uptight job. Its retail.
But yeah

Why am I suddenly in my female late 20s starting to open up and be my more relaxed self? My body language has changed. I used to be uptight with the body language and care too much about what others thought.

[Sixgunsound]

Your confidence has increased? You have stopped caring what irrelevant people think if you? You have finally gotten comfortable with your coworkers? No matter the cause, it is always better to be your true self. It’s draining and frustrating making yourself be someone else. I’m happy you got to where you need to be.

[Remnaourei2]

I thought the act was ME. Thats the weird part. I spent ages thinking im like that.

[Sixgunsound]

People “come out of their shell” so to speak at different rates for different reasons. Maybe you finally found your comfort zone?

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's a part of growing up.. By the time you get to your 70's you'll likely;y change again and become loathing of everyone instead of accepting them.

I'm kidding about that by the way. I do see a lot of 70's year olds acting that way though.

[Remnaourei2]

THat sucks for them but i am a sweetiepie

[glossydripdrip]

You’re channeling your inner confidence, subconsciously. It’s a good thing.

[Remnaourei2]

That word scares me

[Sixgunsound]

Why is that?

[Remnaourei2]

@Sixgunsound it reminds me of arrogance and conceit. Things i dont want to be

[Sixgunsound]

So don’t be those things. You have a choice in the matter. Confidence is good and healthy and will make you happier. Arrogance will make other people upset.

[glossydripdrip]

Although there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, you can be confident without being arrogant, and vice versa. Eventually you’ll learn how to be confident in yourself and your abilities while still remaining humble.

[JustWowMan]

Message me immediately @glossydripdrip