Why do guys start acting different once they get to know you?

[Anonymous]

[TallAnon]

I don't remember who said it, but apparently most men have an ideal woman in their head. One that is perfect and will love them and be there for them. Beautiful and clean. Then every experience chips away at that ideal. She shits just like you. Love is not unconditional. We learn these things over time. Every crush is a new understanding and more disappointment. Until we are brought down to reality. The less we know you, the closer you are to the perfect being that we envision. The more we know you, the clearer that you have flaws. We can either continue searching, wilting away our vision, or accept you for who you are and accept your flaws. Not all men will be ready for this.

[Asker]

This makes more sense than most of the things

[Anonymous]

Well, everyone does really lol. You know them better, and may or may not be more yourself. You'd have to be more specific as to how exactly. But often it's a lack of communication and people not being honest (or saying) what they want and are looking for. People love to make assumptions and judgments, which is never a good thing.

[kinggeorge007]

Because they now know you. You are not strangers anymore. That's how things naturally work. I don't know about others, but it is for me. And I consider it's a privilege not to be strangers and act normal around someone you like.

[In_Trance]

Not true. They acted differently when you met. This is him acting normal