Is it true I dont actually need to have an opinion or thought about every little thing that happens/that myself or others do/say?

[Remnaourei2]

Today I had an epiphany that I dont actually need to have an opinion or thought about every little thing that happens/that myself or others do/say. is this a correct epiphany?

Second question:
I learned today that I dont actually have to continue to think everything myself or others do to/around me and each other has some meaning about who I am as a peraon behind it. Is this a good lesson to have learned?

[Tyrael]

The first one is correct.

The second one I'd say is mostly correct. We're shaped by the experiences we have and that includes the things we do, the things people do to us, and the conversations we have with people. So it's worth keeping in mind that is will have an influence on you, but not every little thing is a huge turning point.