What isnit called when women talk like and act like they are the mother to another man or woman out of nowhere? It is an insidious, conrolling?

[PrMeBaU]

manipulation technique. For example fixing someones clothes. See video below of Kris Jenner an Elon Musk. Just watching the entire video made me irk inside.

As an attractive woman I experience this a lot from older or unattractive women. Not all. Some.

For example my roommate who texts me repeatedly asking and demanding an answer about whether I cleaned the apartment when I was supposed to. Even though I have never NOT done so. Acting like she was my mother and I was a little unruly child who needs to answer to her like she is above me and better than me. Or an ugly woman coworker bossing me around recently. Its shocking what ugly women will do to feel superior once your mere existence triggers their envy.

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If you watch the video you can see Kris Jenner essentially treat Musk like a child, inconsequential. She ignores his offer for a hug and simply fixes his clothes then turns immediately to greet his mother like they were old friends. Musk was emasculated whether he feels so or not.

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You can have an opinion that Musk is not mature in some ways, fine. But that does not mean anyone should approach him and start acting like his mother. she's not his mom.

[PrettyPriya]

My own mum doesn't do that to me. She may mention something that is out of place, but she won't act like that or treat me like I'm still a child.

The video is a bit cringy the way she went about it.

[PrMeBaU]

See even a mother doesn't do that. I wonder what the term is for it because I feel like there is one or should be.

[PrettyPriya]

@prmebau I think you reach a certain age and it gets a bit ridiculous for anyone to do it. Sure, if my SO asks how he looks and I see his tie is a little crooked or something, I fix it.

But that is literally him walking up to me with the intention of me inspecting him. It is implied. I don't just go do it. I would mention, hey your shoe is untied. I'm not going to get down there and tie it like he is a child.

I have no clue what that would be called. Being obnoxious?

[TransAm85]

That's my mother! I didn't know Jenner acts like that. My mother grew up an only child and her adopted father was from Russia and worked for some big corporation so along w/my grandma, they traveled a lot. She was a spoiled kid, but raised by a Russian dictator - so she says. When my brother and I were born/growing up, she was always nosy, none of my friend's mother's liked her and as a kid I didn't understand why but I do now, and she put so many limits, which caused me to rebel. To this day, she's 68 years old, and can't go a day w/o calling me!

[Iron_Man]

I don’t involve myself with these kind of women that want to manipulate and control

[Avicenna]

It’s annoying, yes

[In_Trance]

Retarded. It's retarded