Are there any masculine men left on this world that are not toxic?

[Anonymous]

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes they are, however there are a shit load that are just naturally toxic.

it’s like certain ‘brands ‘ of masculinity are toxic,

look at mental health, a guys attitude to others guys getting mental health support.

look at health, a guy going for a check up, for testicles, prostate

look at being gay, other guys attitude to gay or bisexual.

look at clothes, somehow certain things are off limits.

You see it on GaG constantly, admittedly most are just toxic and not really men, mainly bullies and trolls trying to prove to everyone they are masculine.

The worst are those ‘trying’ to be masculine but just really hate everyone and everything, as it’s not their fault they are single, it’s girls, other guys, society, everything apart from their own toxicity….

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

I'm masculine in the sense that I'm a farm boy who grew up working manual labor jobs always surrounded by very masculine guys and had to fit in.
I'm athletic and mechanically inclined.
Beyond all that I can be very understanding and kind to women I'm with because I have that side to me. I consider myself a masculine guy who's isn't toxic.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I guess that depends on your idea of masculine and your idea of toxic, because people throw those terms around too loosely these days and half the time in the wrong context... But are there masculine men that aren't toxic? Of course there are

[Smashingdoozy]

Masculinity and toxicity go hand in hand unfortunately

[Agagagagaga]

Sexist.

[Smashingdoozy]

@Agagagagaga it's not really. That would require me to be prejudice against men, which I'm not. I just find modern day masculinity to be incredibly toxic. There are aspects of masculinity that aren't toxic, those I like, the rest have got to go.

[Agagagagaga]

noun
sex·​ism \ ˈsek-ˌsi-zəm \
Collegiate Definition
1 : prejudice or discrimination based on sex
especially : discrimination against women
2 : behavior, conditions, or attitudes that foster stereotypes of social roles based on sex

-Merriam Webster Dictionary

[Smashingdoozy]

@Agagagagaga bravo you know how to use Google. But can you read?

[Agagagagaga]

I can read quite well because obviously we are communicating back and forth.

I simply think you’re a sexist and you’re too chickenshit to admit it. It’s okay. Lots of people are sexists. There are worse things in the world. But at least have the courage to stand up for your sexism. You think “masculinity and toxicity go hand in hand.”Well, I think femininity and toxicity go hand in hand. In fact you all foul up everything you touch.

There. See what an asshole I sound like?

Good day miss.

[Smashingdoozy]

@Agagagagaga aw I offended you cute.

[Agagagagaga]

No I’m not offended. I found our little tête-à-tête mildly distracting on a slow Sunday. I got to point out someone who was a sexist, a hypocrite, and a coward. You’re a trifecta of fuckery.

We can continue if you like.

[Smashingdoozy]

@Agagagagaga do you even know what tête-à-tête means. What. 😂

[RandomGuy1030]

Too vague

[justadude109]

Well if toxicity=masculinity, why dont you stop speaking to your dad then or your brother if you have one or any male family members. Why dont you try to have relationships with females? Why dont you become lesbian then? I like how you suddenly changed what you said in the comment section "i mean modern masculinity" just shut up already. If you dont like men, fine... but dont even try to bother men if you need them if you are consistent, i mean i wouldn't like to have to deal with toxic people all the time

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 my dad's dead 🙂 I have no family. 🙃 Nice try though. Try reading a little more in depth. You getting defensive over my comment kinda just shows me that you probably exhibit toxic masculine behaviors and you know it but just don't want to admit it.

[justadude109]

If you hate men, stop dating them, there are females who aren't toxic instead

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 or date men who don't exhibit toxic behaviors... Like I already do. It's like you think it's impossible for men to be good people.

[justadude109]

The men you date probably are feminine simps

[justadude109]

No you ascociate being manly with being bad. Being manly nowadays carries negative conotations because of feminists like you, stop hating men

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 and they're getting my ore ass than you ever would 🙂

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 I don't think being macho, violent, incapable of emotions, communication, or affection is very manly. It's just cowardly and toxic.

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 too late x

[justadude109]

And dating transsexuals doesn't count as real men

[justadude109]

Hahahaha im done, are you reporting me for calling you "trash"? Lol! It worked tho, they got my comments removed because when you see a man arguing a girl, thean is always the agressor and is always wrong

[Still-alive]

“feminine simps”

Lol you guys are so predictable with your ‘guys who aren’t masculine are simps’ logic

[justadude109]

What is a guy who isn't masculine? A worthless fool

[Still-alive]

@justadude109 just dont call other people names and you won't get modded. Its pretty simple :)

[Still-alive]

@justadude109 “What is a guy who isn't masculine? A worthless fool”

Someone who doesn't give a shit about whatever outlandish expectations society puts on them. :)

[justadude109]

Bro a girl on this app said once "why dont you commit suicide" and it didn't get deleted nothing.. these moderators man...

[justadude109]

Why dont you become a female if u dont wanna be a man?

[Still-alive]

@justadude109 " Bro a girl on this app said once "why dont you commit suicide" and it didn't get deleted nothing.. these moderators man..."

link me to it and ill delete it for ya

[Still-alive]

@justadude109 " Why dont you become a female if u dont wanna be a man?"

I'm happy being a man but make an effort to refuse the toxic elements of being 'masculine'

its a bit difficult at times because this concept is so well integrated into our society.. but with enough effort one can succeed at doing so.

[Smashingdoozy]

@justadude109 mate I never said that masculine men are bad. I said I don't like certain masculine behaviors because I think they are toxic. Get over yourself shesh

[justadude109]

So why is being violent only reserved for men? Or being incapable of emotions or communication or affection? Ur just a blatent sexist

[Still-alive]

@justadude109 "So why is being violent only reserved for men?" who said that? strawman much?

"Or being incapable of emotions or communication or affection?" also strawman.

she's just saying toxic masculinity often includes these elements. it says nothing about them being 'exclusive' to men.

[Honesttguy]

I dont think so i would go with 1% of population. Rare species indeed.

Choice most women have to make is a) myster nice guy who dont posses lot of masculinity or b) bad toxic guy who does posses lot of masculinityBut to find someone who posses it and is in control is rare. Sorry

[BrotherBane]

If he isn't honest and tries to sugarcoat his words, he will be seen as feminine. A masculine man would be more honest and unfortunately, would have to say things you don't like to hear. You can't have your cake and eat it too

[Curmudgeon]

Nope, because according to the femi (commu) nist dogma you apparently believe, ALL masculinity is toxic. Enjoy your cats and your dildoes.

[BeMuse]

No man would want an immature little girl that goes around degrading men by calling them toxic for being themselves. You should probably stick to dating transsexuals.

[DaySpring]

Yes but none for you unless and until you stop focusing on that and focus on what you want. And then you'll ask where were they all hiding over the years, as they pour in from ever corner.

[Anonymous]

Not for 30 year old women with kids.

All you get now is the simps who has been kissing your ass for the last 15 years.

They sre good guys. They might make decent money and let you push them over.

At 30 you are no longer a option.

Look at Leonardo di Caprio he don't date anyone over 25. And why would he



At 30 women become bitter and mean if they single and have special needs kids

[Lionman95]

How do you define toxic? Any masculine trait could be seen as toxic. As long as toxic is an open term you won't find a guy you like.

[Anonymous]

Plenty. Unfortunately feminists have done such a good job bitching about men and blaming us for the problems of the world that more and more of us not only don’t want to talk with you, we want nothing to do with you.

[MCheetah]

Truth.

[josephinelcajon]

THEY are desperately trying to eliminate any and all identities sex, race, nationality and political.

[MCheetah]

Plenty. You just don't find them physically attractive enough for your high standards, so you assume all men are either soyboys or "toxic."

[Anonymous]

Please define “masculine” and toxic. I think I’m masculine. Former military, love guns, cute women, tequila, bbq’s, fights, hiding doors open for women but then some may say well that’s toxic. So please define.

[BCRanger10]

There are plenty, at least in the circles I run in.

[one1wild00]

I'm one of the "old School ones" that still respect gals,. I don't see a need for a lot of the "challenges" garbage. And as usually for the same reason I'm usually passed over.

[PortraitOfTerd]

No because to girls any guy that is masculine is called toxic... Guys have to be girly like James Charles to be considered non toxic... So any masculine guy is toxic

[notwoke]

I'm toxically masculine... and you love it! I all seriousness, if you want a masculine man (you should), then you need to expect he is not also going to act like your mommy

[RV2121]

Yes there are many but they get taken soon so women are left with weak men

[ODC2112]

If you think men are toxic and then ask these questions it only means one thing that the toxic person is you.

[bamesjond0069]

Yea. Except they are in such demand they are all married off or have a line of girls waiting for them.

[Zenit93]

Yeah, the issue is all the men in the world rather than you.

[Anonymous]

Depends what "masculine" traits you are seeking. But probably not.

[Anonymous]

Yep, there are plenty of us. The fact we have no interest in "women" like you does not make us toxic.

[Anonymous]

Since females use the word “toxic” to essentially attack any and all things masculine... it’s an oxymoron to ask for a non-toxic masculine man.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If only feminine women that are not toxic really notice them

[Anonymous]

Woman don't want masculine men for marriage. And even if they get one that's first thing they try to train out of them. And women are much more toxic than men all together anyway.

[justadude109]

The problem is probably with you.. you ascoiciate masculinity with being toxic

[Ragingwhisper]

Yes. Me.
And if they are toxic, they are not men. Just guys or little boys with penis issues.

[Anonymous]

Are there any feminist that are non-toxic in this world?

[Anonymous]

nope you women like evil,

you women have to change before judgement falls upon you

[Snsl153]

There was one under my bed just a minute ago.

[Snsl153]

Someone voted this down? I guess I shouldn't try to become a comedienne then.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

I've come across quite a few!

[exitseven]

My wife seems to think so,

[Anonymous]

Of course there are. I know many.

[jasco]

Everyone is toxic to some degree

[OddBeMe]

Yo!

Jk, total beta male.

[007kingifrit]

to a femnazi masculine and toxic are synonyms

[Luckycharms12]

What are you taking about

[BLP11520]

I am sure that there may be some

[AlperEngin93]

I am exactly who you're looking for

[JosyJosy]

Of course.

[Sarahslater3738]

Yea I have one

[ArtemisSilver]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Who hurt you?

[TheFlak38]

hahahahahaha

[Baylay]

Yeah there are

[Fuentes]

Probably not

[Anonymous]

Not for you.

[MrSmithee]

Yes.

[fireforeffect]

Just me.