Constantly online late, but ghosting me?

[Anonymous]

Long distance, have seen each other two months ago.. it was all perfectly good. Until recently he started being online around midnight for around one hour. This timing is way too late for him. And he is so stably online as if he is on a call. For last two weeks that coincided with him stopping texting me. Why would he ghost me out of nowhere and what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Sorry but he is not that into you. It hurts but time to move on.
He might have found something that he didn't like much about you or he found someone who is more his type which is why is talking to them late.
Either way you don't want to waste more time on him.

[spartan55]

Have you ever met him in person?

[Asker]

yeah, we met and after that he left the country so we were talking for all these 2 years. Eventually he came to my town and it was great and we ruined our friendship and became lovers. One month after that I came to his town and stayed with him and it was like a honeymoon to me. We were very close in all senses, but most of all emotionally. A month after my visit we were still talking very well until he started becoming strange, then he went on a trip with friends and became colder. He still was saying things about coming to me and even moving here and we planned some trips (all those topics initiated by him) but then he finally did what I described. All of a sudden..

[spartan55]

Sounds like something changed for him at some point.