Drama why would he do that but say I love you?

[lovelyflower01]

Why does a man feel the need to talk about his girlfriend badly to family or friends?

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He does this knowing it will get back to her and causes all kind of drama between them all but then expects to be forgiven.

[20yearsolder]

I don't know, maybe they don't like her and he just agrees so there's no drama in his house.

[boldlyblu]

Immature, ignorance, or narcissism.
I would still evaluate the friendship/relationship and discuss it with him if nothing changes then use your own discretion.

[lovelyflower01]

That's exactly what I say he is narcissist but she don't believe it but I'm like my God he is 40 and still acts like thos

[ShadowMonarch]

Most prefer to keep it personal as long as they can...

[Guy13]

It’s stupid, isn’t it.

[Guy13]

Probably because he wronged them in some way that is devastating. And if so, he has to degrade them VERY similar to how Pro-Abortion men and women degrade life…. and turn the Womb into a Hitlerian Gas Chamber exterminating life..

[jahaims]

Immaturity and ignorance

[In_Trance]

My guess is inexperience