I'm feeling hurt because this nerdy guy didn't like me back because im not a nerd what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[kinggeorge007]

How old is he?

Here's the thing people have different experiences and perspectives that we can't change from the outside but can be changed from the inside. I know this because I used to be a die-hard nerd and then I changed myself.

For nerds, the situation is everybody uses them and throws them away when not needed. That's the experience they have. Especially girls do this to them. So I'm not surprised that he is reluctant to have a relationship with you. It almost scares him.

If you are really into this and have no plans of hurting him in the process, convince him that you accept him as he is and would not ridicule him for having his own ways. Words won't be enough and you will have to take action as well.

PS: As I've seen on other responses you take pride in "He was shocked someone like me liked him". This is a red flag. Looks like you are not actually interested in him just because he is him, but because you feel empowered by intimidating him. If this is the case, forget it. Just leave him alone.

[Asker]

Yes I don't think he believes me I liked him

[Mitt15]

Dont worry every one has basic nature and feels comfortable in it , it's better not to adjust to a person expectation which will harm your basic nature and mental peace , you will find someone better and compatible to you soon..

[whereismyjohnny]

The best thing you can do is accept it and move on. I know it hurts now, but it will get better.

[Uptowngirl88]

What do you mean what should you do? He don't like you. Accept it and leave him alone

[IMuser]

Because he is looking for someone who can understand him and his hobbies. You being a non nerd will have a difficult time doing it

(Watch big bang theory)

[Asker]

He was shocked someone like me liked him tho

[IMuser]

This phenomenon is called "being insecure af as most of the non nerd girls pretty much make fun of nerds"

[Anonymous]

I think you should contact your Human Resources representative for a resolution.

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[MrCommodore]

Strange, I often find that relationships with girls with different interests work better, like couples need to have independent interests to keep things fresh.

[spartan55]

How devastating that must be that nerds are turning you down.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well it's pretty understandable... You're not very alike... no need to overthink it or take it too personally...

[Asker]

He was shocked somone like me would like someone like him

[Rockstarrrrr]

So you mean you're out of his league? Okay yeah that might hurt... Maybe don't lower your standards the next time

[Asker]

Maybe he thought it wouldn't work out

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well duh...

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It sounds like he is insecure and needs professional help, this will happen with a lot of women if he continues to let this happen.

[Anonymous]

Move on, I am nerdy and I don't care if the girl isn't nerdy as long as she's not bothered me being one. Although some people like partners with similar interests for better vives and there's nothing you can do.

[Asker]

I liked the xbox one gaming tho

[Werenotsure]

It’s a defense he might actually like you but he’s so used to being used and rocked that he just doesn’t believe you because he might face embarrassment if you are not into him and he shows interest

[Asker]

i dont think he believes i really liked him

[Luckycharms12]

Get over yourself not everyone going to be interested in you

[Chiarac2003]

Stop using the word “nerd”.

[Passing_by]

Move on?

[Asker]

Yes he said why would someone like me like him lol

[nawtee_me]

move on...