If this guy didn’t like me why did he get so upset about this?

[Anonymous]

I’d like opinions about this please- so I was friends with a guy for years and we would flirt and talk, he told his friends he liked me but when I asked him out he rejected me.
When he moved away we lost contact but then he wanted to friend me again after a few years.
We got talking again but he started to ignore me and when I questioned him he revealed he’s married, I unfriended him and he sent me a message all angry about it…he said he didn’t want to play games and I’ve got the issue with being just friends. Later on he apologised and he wants us to just leave things as they are for now, so we aren’t friends anymore…why did he get so angry though, it’s not as if he likes me?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t know what to say for certain why this guy got so upset about your decision to unfriend him, as everyone's emotions and reactions are different. However, it's possible that he may have felt hurt or rejected by your decision, even if he is not romantically interested in you.

Alternatively, he may have been feeling guilty about not disclosing his marriage to you earlier, and may have felt defensive when you unfriended him. It's also possible that he was feeling frustrated or confused about the situation, and his anger was a reflection of those emotions.

Regardless of the reasons for his reaction, it's important to focus on your own needs and boundaries in the situation. If you feel uncomfortable or uncertain about maintaining a friendship with someone who is married and was not upfront with you about their relationship status, it's okay to distance yourself and prioritize your own well-being. It may be helpful to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and concerns, and to take time to reflect on what you want and need in a friendship or relationship.

[Anonymous]

Good grief, what a clown. He is the one playing games.

[Asker]

Yes exactly! Thankyou! That’s what I thought, so stupid

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome.

[devilish-cutie]

the guy is married and clearly has issues with him self, you shouldn't concern ysf with him, move on