A gay man I met in public seems tow wanna be friends but he texted me an idea to hang out and I rejected it but said yeah lets hang out and now he?

[Anonymous]

... said 'so since you're going to come up with the plan , what should we do?'... Umm what? I never signed up to make plans and come up with ideas. I don't know what to say. he's making this really awkward for me.

[Chiarac2003]

Tell him that. 🎀

[Asker]

Hahah maybe 🌼

[Chiarac2003]

Some gay guys are needy an have a hard time with themselves. I don't know if I make sense but some are closet queens even after they come out. Some are really comfortable with who they are and will act like a true friend.

[Asker]

Oh like they want to be really close or something? I don't know much about gay guys

[Chiarac2003]

Yes close or needy an can’t make any decisions.. cos they have such low self esteem.. I don’t blame them.. but it may not b a good thing to start a friendship.

[Asker]

Ahh okay x I guess I should slowly back away and tell him im busy. I honestly had no idea some gay guys were like that. Thanks for the heads up

[Chiarac2003]

Idk… jus the info is kinda textbook 4 what I say… hopefully I’m wrong.. or some other opinions may confirm or deny my view. Good luck hun. 🎀

[Asker]

Thankss