How do I move on if I feel like crying when im around my work crush or thinking of him?

[Anonymous]

I feel very emotional. I used to months ago ball my eyes out like seriously. Its no joke i was crying like my dog or grandma died or something. Now it died down a bit but i still get strong very strong urges feelings to cry... like today im working sorta with him and oh my gosh I don't know if im an empath and picking up on his emotions he's hiding but this us really weird i get so emotional due to him.

[HollyK21]

I’m not sure what led you to even going from having a crush to crying about being in his presence. Like did you confess your feelings and he rejected you for whatever reason? Or maybe you found out he had someone already? Whatever the case, I think you’re just having a hard time getting over him. It’s already not so great even when he’s out of sight out of mind, but to be working with him just makes it harder. Just remember to go easy on yourself and let time do it’s thing. You be over him before you know it.

[Asker]

Thank you ☺ yeah maybe thats what it is. My heart is too stubborn can't leg go of anything

[HollyK21]

I definitely get you, it’s hard to let go especially if you saw a lot of potential or wanted him really bad. I think that once you start accepting the situation rather than having what-ifs or being hopeful still, then you’ll have an easier time moving on. Wishing you luck with the process though☺️

[Asker]

Thanks so much i think i have to try that.