Creepy nice guys. Why do they get butthurt when you won't sleep with them & you have a boyfriend?
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They want sex. They think all women are in a relationship with a scumbag, because of course he's a scumbag because he's got what they want. So they're going to label him as a bad guy or claim he's abusive to you. So now they decide I'm gonna pretend to be the opposite, that'll get me pussy. When that doesn't work their true colors show and the act drops and they're just angry, manipulative and slimy. Meanwhile your "bad boy" boyfriend at home actually treats you like a queen and is respectful and loving.
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I can tell you as a person who struggled with anxiety, a lot of people come across as creepy nice guys when in fact they suffer from anxiety. They actually have a lot of integrity. They are not weak. They are not trying to play fake nice to get with you. They actually have hearts of gold. It's horrible when you suffer from anxiety and want to face your fears and approach people in general more but they attack you and disrespect you and dissmiss you. You don't know the trauma a person might have went through in the past, don't be such abusive whores.
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Those aren't genuinely nice men. Those are male feminists. And you should know by now that male feminists are wolves in sheep's clothing. Especially ironic considering literally NO ONE is more emasculated, pathetic, and weaker than a male feminist.
They're easy to explain though: They genuinely don't respect women, so they think being a male feminist absolves them of their past sins and disrespect. Although once again, this is ironic, as NO ONE respects women less than feminists.
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Because they're not really nice. Acting nice is their strategy because they can't be anything else. A truly nice person will always attract people.
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Cos they think that having a nice personality makes them desirable and girls should want them... its Not about being entitled to their body like everyone else here is saying... But they think having a nice personality means girls would like them enough to WANT sex with them.. but their mistake is girls like assholes with a crap personality, this is why as a nice guy I jus give up on girls... I don't want to put on an act of acting like a jerk... If girls don't like nice guys.. fuck em.. IL jus go gay
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All nice guys hear about are the fuckbois and assholes who hurt women. So they decide to be the opposite and soo nice because logically the women will chase them and give them sex. These guys don’t understand how to create desire and why women want guys who are real and honest. So when there efforts fail they lash out at at women because from their perspective they played the game the correct way
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Because they are taught by society that something is wrong with them if women don't like them and have sex with them and be their girlfriends. They are just trying to do what they feel they have to do in order to be considered "correct" by men and women in society. They are trying to achieve value in society, and they feel like you're unfairly denying them their chance to do that.
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I’m confused. If they are hitting on you and they know you have a boyfriend they aren’t “nice guys.”
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As an ex "nice guy", you just do it hoping to get laid and get hurt when you get rejected. Pretty normal. Then I realised, there's plenty of fish in the sea, if you don't get one, move on. It's not like you need that exact girl. There will always be someone better on paper so keep jumping and you'll hit more than enough instead of pursuing girls who are just not into it. They're not worth time. So yeah. Long answer. Sorry 😅
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Because they think women are like machines that if you put enough "nice tokens" or insert a punchcard with 10 "nice punches" made in them, women will dispense one free sex.
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Stop referring to "players" as "nice guys".
Nice people don't act fake or jerkish to get laid. - 555 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
They do so much thinking it will work but in the end they feel like they did it all for nothing then lash out at you.
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I don't really know what you're talking about without more information. Based on the pics you posted, it seems like you're talking about virtue signaling assholes.
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Because they think they're great and thus feel entitled to your body.
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They are not nice guys. They are guys who think women are sexual vending machines - put in nice, and sex comes out.
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Lol it’s just another strategy even if they even convince themselves I guess
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Because they do not know they're not being nice.
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Nice guys finish last they forget
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They pretend to be nice
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Cause there adolescent creepy assholes
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