To clarify, I'm not in any way CONDONING this guy's behavior - I wouldn't be flirting with you in his situation - but I will EXPLAIN it because you asked.
Despite what you might thing, he's PROBABLY *not* looking to cheat, but rather he's just looking for some validation that he's still attractive to women and can still talk to and attract some of them. It may be that his girlfriend/baby-momma is a ball-breaker who is trying to destroy his self-esteem, and this is how he manages it. Obviously I can't say for sure, but MOST of the time, when a guy is taken and is still flirting, it's just because he's insecure (often because of an external force) and is trying to find reassurance.
Of course, cheaters DO exist, and it's certainly possible that he is one. But as none of us knows him, we have no way to give any definitive answers, just the odds. Off the top of my head, I'd say about 60%, he's just looking for some validation, and maybe 30% he's looking to cheat, and 10% it's something else.
Hey yeah this is a big red flag if you're wanting a serious relationship with this guy. Feel free to follow me, I'll pm you about a situation like this in my life
Men are born cheaters. Almost all men that try to chat me up, I find out at some point they are married or at least in a relationship.
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They are cheaters obviously
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