So my friend constantly tells me that I look bad as a brunette (my natural hair color, as you can see in the pic) and that guys won’t go for me unless I dye my hair. Is this true? Should I dye it?
Men of all races love and literally worship beautiful blonde hair blue eyed white girls like me because we're so beautiful and smart have such beautiful color hair and eyes and are so feminine. Nonblonde women especially black women are so jealous of us because they're so ugly and no man if any race loves or wants them. I'm a white girl and I'm 4'11" with natural pure platinum blonde super shiny massive hair longer than I am tall the lightest brightest bluest eyes a perfect body natural large tits the most beautiful face and most beautiful smile. I always dress all in very bright pink and like a dominatrix. I wear glasses that are very super bright pink. Everything I wear and own including my houses and cars and everything in my houses and cars is very super bright pink. Even the cigarettes I smoke are very super bright pink. I'm very proud of being white and naturally blonde and blue eyed and I'm married to and have kids eyes very dark sexy black man. Men of all races including my very dark sexy black husband always tell me I'm by far the most beautiful and most feminine girl they've ever seen. Nonblonde women especially black women are always so jealous of me and especially get mad and jealous when they see me with my very dark sexy black husband and my black kids and it's so funny and amusing.
Wow. This comment is coming from...: A crackhead head who is commenting on their fantasy as if it was a real life sinerio, Or perhaps the most ignorant conceited person ever. This was absolutely tasteless, rude, racial, ... oh lord... You really have no friends. You have people who are polite to you, or you hang with people who think like you, but in this group none of you are anybody friend as soon as something happens, y'all would turn each other like the skanks of those millionaire dating shows. I'm appalled. I know I shouldn't let people like you bother me, but I found that thus was incredibly out of pocket and the lady you wrote this to is not only incredibly nice but beautiful as well and your attempt to exercise a supiority over her... Tells me that a, everything about you that you think is beautiful came from a can. B, you really hate yourself inside. I truly am offended by your answer. No matter what you look like, true beauty and sex appeal comes from the heart. I really believe that you owe this lady an apology, and then in return, I shall owe you one... but I hate bullies and this was in a form bullying. No idea what you look, but I'd date this lady before you 1,000x over
@PastorJohn69 yeah I've seen a dozen or so answers from this user before it's always the same thing. No matter what the question was, she writes her height, that's she's blonde, has a black husband, that she loves pink, that she's totally full of herself/in love with herself. Basically all the superficial, empty-headed tripe. Over and over, every time. I want to say it might be a cut-n-paste with how every answer is the same list of superficial things about her and her life.
I wouldn't really pay much attention, she isn't pretty, she had to blot out her whole picture with pink crayon, so it's probably why she has to brag so much to feel like she can fool people on the internet at least. Mental issues to say the least.
WonderBell99 | 67 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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2 mo
No, it’s best to stay natural. In my opinion, you are pretty just the way you are. You don’t need to dye your hair blonde to be attractive.
Your friend is jealous. Usually, these types of toxic comments stem from jealousy and insecurities. I’d highly advice you to cut off contact with this so called friend of yours. Friends don’t put each other down.
I can assure you that you have nothing to worry about.
Thank you so so much, I really appreciate it. A lot of my other friends keep saying the same things but we’ve been friends since we were like 6 (I’m 18 now) so it’s really difficult to cut her off :(
Yeah, quite often actually. It’s so weird because she’s always so kind to other people, but when it comes to me she always making negative remarks on my appearance. It’s really exhausting and has made me extremely self conscious about a lot of things
If what you have with her is a genuine friendship, she won’t make you question your self worth.. but the thing is, she’s a phony. True friends won’t trivialize or deprecate you. I get that you’ve been friend for almost 12 years now, but it doesn’t change the fact that she gets off of putting you down. You have to be strong and find better friends or this will have a serious impact on your mental health and self esteem.
@Majtou yep she's jealous and hates you because of it, that's why she's nice to everyone else but is using her "friendship" with you to try and destroy you and make you insecure. Seems like it's working since you posted this question, but there's really no question you are a gorgeous brunette. That you are self conscious shows me you are being "poisoned" somehow, your confidence should reflect your beauty, and be at full power :D <3
oh, I found out you're a catfish, and that's not your photo. I don't know what you actually look like, but it seems you're so insecure you can't even use your own photo and are faking and lying to people. That's big trouble you're in if you've gone this far into insecurity. Best think about how unhealthy this is, and how much everyone will hate you when they find out you are deceiving them. It's not a good look. :/
I'm sure it's true that some do, while others pre brunette or ginger. There are so many preferences and tastes. I I can guarantee that for every body type and every hair style, there is somebody who is checking them out. Everybody has their thing that does it for them , but there is something far more appealing and way more of an attention getter... And that is... the way she carries herself. Personality and confidence is actually for more attractive. Yes the looks is the initial attraction, bit you have you have to keep them interested. This is the most someone will tell you. Boys want trophies, men will go for that girl next door 99.2 percent of the time. They want real.. they want the sweetie that their mom will love, and their dad will hi 5 him for it. When mom is not looking. So, in short be you. Love who you are. Don't be greedy and don't be conceited, but does to earth and it won't matter if you are blond or brunette or bald or skinny or thick... Heart is my favorite coler.
Oh, one a side note, you are gorgeous and if someone cannot appreciate you for who you are... tell them to kick rocks. Don't let anyone make you feel inferior as you are your woman and trust me when I say... Hold your head High
Please know, I didn't write that In a way other than sincere calling out the obvious. So please don't be offended, I didn't mean for it to seem I was coming at you. Apologies if if did
Guffrus | 838 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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2 mo
Red > Rainbow > Black > Brown > Blonde.
But more importantly than this, if you actually think that the colour of your hair is going to be the reason why I want to date you or not then that becomes the reason I dont want to date you.
So congratulations to your friend, she just got turned down by a complete stranger she didn't want to date anyway.
No, Every person has they own choice. I have the most common hair color so I don't really have choice girl ur beautiful u got win win in looks but remember the true looks is in inside ♥️👀
Personally I don't care about hair colour, clothing, height or weight as it doesn't make the person that you are. People who are judgmental need to stop
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nawtee_me | 461 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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2 mo
Not at all, I think you are absolutely gorgeous. However looks is not everything. So even those who like blondes would like you if you have a good personality. For me, it is your smile that got me...
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meetkitty123 | 65 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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2 mo
Your friend is insane or extremely jealous. BRUNNETTES are gorgeous. I get MORE THAN MY SHARE of attention. Im a dark hair woman and I turn heads. I have no doubt you do too.
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Anonymous
2 mo
You look beautiful; anyone would be lucky to have you.
I like all hair colors and you look good as a brunette (natural hair color). I don't think you'd look good as a blonde but you might look good as an auburn
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Anonymous
2 mo
I love brunettes your friend is just being a judgmental bitch. The photo you posted long as it is you is really beautiful.
It's pretty messed up but that's the world we live in. This girl probably isn't very attractive at all and now is living a fantasy life. I saw a video where these catfishes get extreme and even date online pretending to be another person the whole time, they steal heaps of photos. It's very dangerous for mental health and I pity her but at the same time it's very shameful.
@zeitgeist057 you're right most of these people just want to see what it is like to get a lot of attention. Both men and women who are frustrated who aren't the best looking or have problems with their personality or attitude or something
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