How to get over a crush that your 99% sure isn’t interested in you and you never talk to?

[Anonymous]

Title basically says it all. I met this guy in my calculus course and we make eye contract a lot, I’m sure I look like a dumbass since I freeze up every time we do. We don’t talk, I don’t think he likes me back but I’m still stuck on him for some reason (it’s been like 2 months)

[ImNoOne111]

Give it time. It goes away. You can write messages to him but never send it. Also I recommend destroying all evidence like pictures, texts, etc. Avoid contact with him, get yourself busy and give it time. It once took me a year and 2 months to move on from someone

[Anonymous]

In your case you go talk to him

[Asker]

I really shouldn’t he has a girlfriend too

[Opinion Owner]

Well you didn't mention that part. Accept defeat and walk away. Maybe write to him and then terr it up or burn the letter afterwards

[Asker]

Didn’t think it was important considering I asked how to move on as a my main question. Already tried that though, still think about him

[Opinion Owner]

Well because if you dont try his image will just be burned in your mind. But I feel you are too far gone you might be in love. I say avoid him at all costs and find someone hotter

[Asker]

The thing is I don’t seek him out and I’m never around him but somehow we always like end up making eye contact like in the cafe or the library etc… I don’t think I’m in love but I don’t have any cuter guys around me rn so I’m just trying to get him out of my head🥲

[Opinion Owner]

Never said you seek him out I'm just saying the moment you see him... run. lol

[Asker]

That’s what I do girl and then I’ll bump into him face first and then I’ll run away again and then my friends will start making conversation with him and then I’ll have to leave again. I don’t know how this keep happening to me

[Opinion Owner]

I dont want to say it could be fate. But he's taken so you have to bury those feels he strong

[Asker]

Look if its meant to be or something it’ll still be when he’s not in a relationship. But for now I’m defs just gonna keep trying my best avoiding him and minding my business. Nothing good ever came out of home wrecking.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true