How do girls view an ugly guy who has "player" vibes as opposed to "attractive" guys?

[Anonymous]

He's not a player but gives off those vibesHow would girls view it if it was an ugly guy & attractive guy?

[Nightskies]

He would just be uglier. And in my opinion attractive guys who are players aren’t attractive once they start playing you.

[Asker]

I'm curious

How does a guy give "player vibes" regardless of appearance because many gals assume I'm one when I'm not even attractive

[Nightskies]

Usually most players try to act smooth and flirt with everyone, attracted to people easily, thirsty, play too much, leads girls on to get in her pants then end up hurting her, too many friends that are girls, asking for nudes, shirtless pics give off the vibe too, never initiate a real convo, there’s a lot more but that’s some.

[Asker]

🤔

I supposedly give of those vibes but I never speak... so can girls assume if I'm a "player" if I strut rather than walk & carry that "confident" vibe & carry myself with too much pride/ego?

[Nightskies]

It’s okay to be confident in yourself but you shouldn’t be self-absorbed. I don’t think you should care what anyone thinks of you unless you like them a lot. Then that’s when you make good changes in yourself if you have bad habits that wouldn’t work well in the relationship.

[Asker]

🤔

Now that you bring up "confidence"

I've noticed that many gals get very aloof, rude, cold when interacting with me but there cool with other guys regardless of how they look

I'm curious as how you might perceive these situations

I don't initiate any convos with them either by the way

[Nightskies]

Do you have a bad rep or something? They might have heard things you have done from other people and dislike you. If you want your rep back, best thing to do is leave the people that dislike you behind and change your ways. Don’t say anything rude back to people that are rude to you, that’ll just prove their point if they think you are a bad person.

[Asker]

Nope

Just random gals that wanted to squabble with me or get shallow for reasons I'll never know

[Asker]

So they just wanted to act like shallow cunts towards me