What can I do about this male coworker whom my subconscious likes a lot?

[Anonymous]

My subconscious mind causes me to glance at his crotch... He's so hard working, gentlemanly, polite etc. Its hard not to like him and his personality might be the catalyst or enabler of my affection because there are total assholes at work who flirted with me endlessly and even stare at my body or say perverted stuff and their crotches aren't mesmerising to my subconscious mind. This is kinda weird. I can't even see anything there. But no doubt he's a man so something is behind those loose pants. Right?

[Alex8736]

The best way would be at an after work gathering where everyone is socializing and just sit back and observe where you can learn a lot about them

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you want a relationship with him.
Do you?

[clemdenim]

Flirt