Why does my boyfriend keep bringing up having children together but then change his mind and tell me he's not ready yet is he just lying to me?

[Anonymous]

[Confidentandchill]

Hopefully you’re 14 and I say that because I’d highly recommend waiting until you’re close to 30

[Waldoe]

How long has he been your boyfriend? maybe he is NOT ready, wants to save some money 1st but really wants a child