Guys: What do you think and how do you feel when you see a woman adjusting her bra?

[Anonymous]

So I was adjusting my bra when my friend who is gay said to me : “ girl, you adjusting your bra is as disrespectful as me adjusting my junk in front of you”. I laughed at the odd situation because I didn’t do it with the intention of offending him. I asked him if he was serious about his comment and he said “well the majority of guys will look at you and think you have no manners or that you’re flirting with them”…. but I only adjusted the strap of my bra and pushed my tata a bit to the side. In my mind I only thought, “is he serious? 😂”. Now I’m curious about what goes through a guys mind when they see women adjusting their bras. Is it disrespectful? Odd? No big deal?

[N192K001]

I disagree.

My 1st thought would involve consideration & self-preservation: "Look away! A few second should be good."

As for respect & disrespect, I've seen that exhibited via other means. (And I'm an Asian from an honor & shame society.)

Also, stuff happens. As a guy, there are some… adjustments that can wait. But there are some sudden adjustment-deficiencies that are literally not just uncomfortable, but painful (ex. hairs suddenly stuck to foreskin… while walking… in public… in a moving line of people… who's pace quickens, which can be made even worse in the case of a sudden, unpredictable erection for no reason whatsoever) that can't be fixed with standard adjustments via hands outside of pants. (Obviously, corrections would still have to be done in the nearest restroom possible, with failure to do so having strong potential for penalty of jail-time depending on the nature of the witnesses.)

I can imagine women have their own situations, so I'd consider that excusable. But I'd have to show consideration and also protect myself from potential accusations via looking away. The only concern, then, would be for how long (which will obviously depend on the nature of the woman's adjustment-deficiency, which is outside anyone's control, but hers)?

[noamazia]

same rules for men:
pushing a hand down your pants (blouse) is a no go.
pulling the underwear (bar) through the clothes is fine, as long as its not too big of an adjustment.
or best option - do it in stealth: men put their hand in their pockets and slowly push or pull to adjust without being seen. if you can do that tastefully then go for it.

[noamazia]

by the way, putting hands in pockets and adjusting the balls is called PocketPong. in my country there is actually a funny 5 seconds song about it...

[noamazia]

also, adjusting a strap is as dry as it comes. if you didn't put your hand inside your shirt then the dude is reaaally over reacting and i'd say maybe overprotective of you

[laraWM]

If you were acting like in the picture I can understand the guy. But if it was the strap only then no big deal

[Asker]

It was only my strap, and kinda pushed my tata with my arm to accommodate it. I didn’t stick my hand in there or showed him anything but he did act like I was being disrespectful

[laraWM]

Then I don't understand. His reaction was excessive

[laraWM]

Thank you

[Erin_the_Blonde]

I've adjusted my bra before in public and noticed a few guys staring at me.

[Anonymous]

It’s a little trashy. You basically can’t keep yourself in place and you’re re-adjusting your garment and person in front of someone. This is something that one typically does in one’s bedroom, a bathroom, or changing room.

Personally I wouldn’t make a huge deal about it, but it’d be silently noted. Much as one notices when another belches and doesn’t say “excuse me,” or when someone doesn’t leave a tip when dining out. Sometimes shit happens. Sometimes it becomes a habit.

[Vikkrram]

If any girl would do that in front of me , then i would look here and there or would leave that area for sometime

[Anonymous]

I think nothing of it (just as guys do this down there as well - it's the same thing, simply adjusting). This guys sounds inexperienced?

[Andres77]

It's not the same as a guy adjusting his junk.
And men and women don't have the same brains.
ignore the whiner.

[billmunch]

I think she's wearing the wrond size bra if it's frequent. Otherwise, I don't mind. I get the 2 second cheap thrill.

[Fireguy17]

Wondering how well it would match the carpet in my bedroom.

[Waldoe]

I am glad I don't have to deal with 1 lbs. of fat hanging from my chest... Fun to look at... but the back pain would be too much for me...

[AssholeNumberOne]

Wait they're a pound

[Anonymous]

no it's not disrespectful but it will have guys thinking about your boobs how big they are what they look like without a bra or top on and to suck on them squeeze them kiss them lick them burry their faces in them

[Opinion Owner]

disrespectful no not in the least

[Opinion Owner]

it's a part of grooming yourself and making yourself feel more comfortable

[JohnK123]

I mean some girls just do it just because to show off or whatever Ik a few classmates in school who do that

[Mate100]

I find it gross and its uncomfortable

[Anonymous]

I get excited and hope she pops out.

[Anonymous]

Feel aroused