He knows I'm not pregnant but why is he stressing so much?

[Anonymous]

⁷I'm honestly just really fed up with the amount of unnecessary stress he's creating for himself and I... I literally tested negative with him being right outside the bathroom door... I'm NOT pregnant and it's been longer than 2 weeks... NOW he's stressed out over that fact that it's taking so long for my period to come... I even told him that I sometimes skip a period due to stress and diet changes... yet he's so obsessed over when will my period come now and constantly calls everyday wondering If it's arrived yet... I understand why he would have had concern regarding whether I was pregnant or not but I'm NOT... I honestly feel like he doesn't trust me or something I feel really unheard :/
Why is he being like this?

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1 y

This all started out this way because two weeks ago we did it unprotected, I even took a plan b asap with him watching :/

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1 y

He doesn't want me on birthcontrol said its not good for my body, says he wants kids just not right now.

[Anonymous]

Lol. Tell him that even if you start bleeding that’s no guarantee you’re not pregnant. Some women have period like bleedings on a regular basis throughout pregnancy, even at the ”right” times when they would have gotten their period. So tell him he’ll have to wait 8 months to find out if he’s a dad.

Seriously though, if you don’t want a kid then don’t have sex. It’s a very simple concept. There is always a risk of pregnancy when having sex with the opposite gender, no birth control method is 100% effective. Tell him this.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Because until your period comes, there is no real way to know that you aren't pregnant. You took one test. It could've been too early. Explain to him that his constant worrying is making you stressed too. But also cut him some slack.

[Asker]

I took like 3 more after that all were negative

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Well if y'all don't want kids right now and if he's gonna be this crazy about it then y'all need to use protection.

[Whatever2929292]

Totally possible if you're both having sex. If you aren't married to him then consider finding someone else or going to couples counseling. If he can't stop doing this then he either needs to go to couples counseling with you or maybe it is time for you to consider other options

[Whatever2929292]

Then he needs to just chill out

[Whatever2929292]

Once again I think he is controlling and using you for sex

[BarryLiverstone]

Because he’s worried you are pregnant and that would trap him

[Asker]

So basically he doesn't trust me then, even tho I've been honest and transparent with him... great.

[qwert1234]

This is not about you, it's about him.
If you two are young, having a kid means sacrifice, in all terms - money, time, emotion, and the list goes on.
He may not be mentally prepared for it.

[LazerBean]

Because he doesn't actually want to be permanently entangled with you.

[ErikaBeexd]

maybe he wanted to be a father very much or he is not ready to be a father ask him about it