Why on earth would I stare at a stranger for ten seconds, let alone 10 minutes?
Why on earth would I approach a stranger?
Why on earth would I not reject a stranger who approached me?
Why on earth are men expected to, but women aren't?
Screw that entire process, I'm not interested in meeting people on the street, I'll meet them in a video game lobby where I at least know she shares some of my interests, or on a dating app where I can just read her bio to see if I'm interested.
Strangers you don't know a damn thing about are not worth persuing, you don't even know if they are single, let alone single and compatible, why should I be attracted to the unkown? Because she's pretty? pff! 😂
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Put yourself in mens shoes. Imagine having everything going for you, and even with different approaches, nearly every women is flakey, snobby, etc. You learn it's a numbers game so you find out you have to message a bunch of women to get a few responces. It's not pathetic at all, men have zero choice in the matter. The problem is more women than men.
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I think it´s true that men are less likely to approach a woman mostly because most guys have a different focus than guys in the past.
Guys nowadays often don´t have a family when they think about their future. Many guys prefer sexual adventorous like why do you need marry if you can have friends with benefits or other sexual open relationships that give you pleasure without responsibility?
Other guys are quick to social incompetent. They are not able to start a conversation with a woman because they are socially awkward and can´t talk well with anyone. The number of those guys is growing. Many of them grow up in front of screen, both of parents are probably working, many of their friendships are spent mostly online.
Because they spend much time online, they loose social skills.
So because they had no contact to girls besides school in their youth, they are uncomfortable talking to women in real life so when they go to a bar they sit down and look at their phone because that´s what they´re comfortable with.
Women on the other hand are still more likely to look for a relationship at least that´s what it feels to me. So they start to question themselves and their looks.
Don´t get me wrong I have male friends that are taken but the majority of them know their girlfriends or wifes from school or are nearly 30.Women are hilarious, complain complain complain about literally anything a man do 😂
So many videos like this is popping out everywhere. Men in real life have finally got their act together as they should.
But men on social media on the other hand are PATHETIC PATHETIC PATHETIC
gag is pure example, I get it some of these online men are boosting these chicks confident by lusting over them but they LOOK desperate.
Also a lot of these desperate online men are foreigners not saying western men dont but the foreigners make the most of the numbers.most of them are so fat I just want to get as far away from them as I can. Even at my gym most of the women are big. the media has convinced them they are not big but they are. Most unfortunately they are showing skin too. No thanks
Whatever happened to gender equality? We started treating females like other guys like they want us too. Sorry to tell you this. but bro code clearly states that bros don't hit on other bros.
wouldn't surprise me
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