I think you would do well to move on. Some guys pursue younger women. Some don’t. You will have a better chance of attracting a good man if you find greater contentment with your life. I know it’s difficult being a hard-working single mom and it’s unfair that your ex cheated on you and treated you poorly. Try to be kind to yourself. Try to set aside at least one time a week to do something you enjoy with the kids, on your own, or even as simple as a relaxing bath. It can take time after a bad relationship ends to find contentment and recover those aspects of yourself that were suppressed for years. My experience is that it is entirely possible, it just takes patience. I really believe that finding contentment and peace of mind despite being alone can help increase the odds of attracting a good man.
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Sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too. You'll meet another great guy someday. He's out there and he'll love your appearance more than your friend does 👌
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Follow your heart. If you don't want him as a friend, then don't include him in your life.
Why does your profile say you are 21 if you are really 29? Ha! You basically just asked "can guys and girls be "just friends""
And the answer of course is, no. As "just friends", doesn't make sense, right? How can someone be "just friends" with someone. And yes, I'm stressing the fact that there QUOTES around thatI thought you said he's engaged to be married?
i don't know wtf is going on here but men are NEVER interested in just friendship with women. he might just want to use you
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