He suggested a date but I haven’t heard from him?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy on a night out and we hit it off immediately. We ended up kissing, holding hands and he complimented me a lot. He stayed at mine but we didn’t sleep together.

In the morning, we continued talking having lots in common. He thought it was cool that I surfed and said I looked like a supermodel.

Before he left late morning he asked for my facebook and said we should go on a date, to which I smiled and said yes. We kissed goodbye. He was going on holiday the next day with family and I haven’t yet heard from him (4 days) - what are peoples interpretations of this scenario? I always thought a guy would follow up right away if he was keen!

[IJhonnyI]

In your opinion do you not think things went to fast?

[Asker]

I suppose, but it also felt so natural, honest and real. I think it’s rare to have such a strong instantaneous connection with someone

[IJhonnyI]

Hey that feeling happend to me we were seven months strong, now look at me single as I should've been from the beginning now I'm feeling better than I was trust me that's why you shouldn't skip the talking stage gets you to know who the person is and what your getting into personally not saying my situation will happen too you but it's more possible since you just jumped into it no judgment If I could keep the significant other I will but with the way you hasn't texting in 2 days personally that's not something I would do too my girlfriend

[BarryLiverstone]

Is he fb friends with you?

[Asker]

Yep he added me the next day

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok then he’s just focused on holiday rn. If he’s fb friends he will reach out eventually

[BarryLiverstone]

In the meantime be sure to date other guys so you don’t develop emotional feelings for him

[Asker]

Okay interesting! Thank you - will have to let you know

[BarryLiverstone]

For sure do that. Because you have supermodel looks aren’t lots of guys asking you out?

[Asker]

Yes and I do enjoy going on dates. Definitely go through phases though of being on the apps and then needing a break! But I shall get some more dates going

[BarryLiverstone]

Omg the apps are the worst aren’t they? Had three dates with girls and they all had lied on their profiles. Certainly can understand needing a break. I took a break myself recently

[Asker]

Oh gaad. As if they think no one’s going to find out 🤦🏼‍♀️

[BarryLiverstone]

Right? That’s why I stopped the apps. Too many people trying to fake it yk

[Asker]

Makes meeting naturally feel much more special!

[BarryLiverstone]

How do you meet people?