Had a great first date but I haven’t heard from him, should I assume he’s not interested?

[Anonymous]

Went on a great first dating app date with a guy who I’ve been talking to for a while. We talked for hours, laughed a lot, great connection. He told me at the end he would like to see me again and arrange something soon.
i sent a text message telling him I had a great time to which he responded and agreed. But I haven’t heard from him since and the date was on Sunday. Now I keep seeing him active on the dating app.
could I still be an option to him? Does him arranging other days now mean he wasn’t actually interested in me?

[YeshuaSaves777]

Not all men is going to approach/contact a women first. He may be waiting for you to say something. He might be thinking the same thing as you. Maybe both of y’all are playing hard to get. Whatever the reason is... if you want him, show him you want him. Message him if you want to find out if he is interested. Don’t wait.

[Asker]

But if he’s using the dating app after our date and arranging other dates, does that mean he’s not interested in me? I was the first girl he’s been on a dating app date, could that mean I’m his least favourite or he’s using me as practice?

[YeshuaSaves777]

No. Not at all. He is on a dating ape, his options are still open. You are not his girlfriend, so he doesn’t need to stop at you. He is going to keep browsing. Practice, no that would be a waste of time to go on a date and practice. Only way to find out is ask him on another date, just do it. The longer you wait the more stress it’s going to put on you. The saying “you snooze you lose” is real. You shouldn’t assume anything. You have to be sure.

[Asker]

But wouldn’t he be keep to arrange a date very soon if he was interested? My friends told me I would arrange in the same week if he cared. Im sure there’s people prettier and flirtier than me :(

[Marilynjuana]

Text him with the date and time when you would like to meet him again.

[Asker]

But surely he’d do that if he was interested? And if he’s going on other dates after mine, does that mean that I didn’t have much of an impression on him?

[Marilynjuana]

I suppose you are the woman I replied to yesterday as well. I have already answered all these questions. Make up your mind on how you want to proceed, if you want to at all.

[Quackthulu]

You do realize it's okay to send him another message, right?

[Asker]

But he would text me surely if interested? And if he’s going on other dates after me, does that mean I’m a back up option?

[Quackthulu]

Does it matter? You are just sitting there wondering without actually doing anything. Just send him a damn message, ask if he wants to go out again, and either way you won't have to wonder any more..

[Anonymous]

He's busy with them other girls.