Why would someone want to be so unbelievably secretive?

[Anonymous]

So my crush seems very secretive. He’s a really good looking guy and confident but he doesn’t let much out about himself. He keeps conversations open but doesn’t get personal. many of his guy friends on Facebook follow loads of girls but he only follows a fair few.

He has 2 Facebook accounts. On one he has a few pictures but only follows people he knows well and has changed his settings so that no one can search him. On the other he has around 300 people but has no profile picture and just a black image. So seems like he’s comfortable with people seeing his pictures who know him but others not. His Instagram is private and he only allows people to follow him who know him and just has one picture.

[spartan55]

He doesn't feel the need to have a big social media presence. This doesn't mean he is secretive.

[Pvssyowner2]

I see two of the biggest nasty trolls on this site answered so far.

But anyway, social media isn't real life. But if he's not sharing his life with you in real convos, he's probably seeing you as a toy.

[Asker]

We haven’t gotten to know each other yet only had a few convos I just mean in general he is quite private but don’t know if that’s a bad thing

[Pvssyowner2]

Wait until he starts opening up to you before you take him serious. You want to hear what a man all says because it reveals his intentions and what is in his heart. Dont do the talking for him cus guys can then hear what you want and pretend to be that for a while so they get whatever sex, money etc that they want out of you.

[Pvssyowner2]

I went on a rant there but honestly TLDR just let him start talking. If he never opens up then leave

[KrakenAttackin]

There is nothing wrong with being private.

[In_Trance]

I don't see the issue here