Sometimes I try not to be pessimistic but I wonder what's wrong with me? I have no personality?

[Anonymous]

I hate to be pessimistic but i just dont seem to tell jokes really, i just am so bland. I like boring stuff and can do meticulous boring work quietly meanwhile others would be complaining about way less boring work.

I can stare into space thinking of nothing. In fact i do it a lot. I think onlookers think its freaky.

[MrOracle]

I don't think most people would be bothered by that. You don't need to tell jokes, you just need to NOT be offended when others tell them, and hopefully you smile or laugh when they do. Most people aren't especially funny, but that doesn't mean they can't have a sense of humor (meaning, they can laugh at jokes and take them for being the jokes that they are).

As long as you are honest and nice and as long as you can choose moral people to be around, you'll have no problem.

[Asker]

Yeah i was at a retail job surrounded by assholes.. not moral people.

[MrOracle]

Right. Don't be so hard on yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. We all have some strengths and weaknesses, and you don't need to be strong at everything. Find yourself a high-quality partner (based on morals and values far more than looks and money) and provide value to each other, and you'll do just fine in life.

[Asker]

Thanks you're smart:)

[serious]

I don't see anything wrong with you

[Asker]

Guys especially bully me endlessly because im cold. They expect me to kiss their ass or something

[serious]

Guys are bullying you?

Well you know people can always sense weakness (mental), they can sense fear and bullies are such that is you are scared, afraid then you tend to become their targets as compared to otherwise.

[Asker]

Well i am realizing how fearful i was. I have ben becoming less scared especially after realizing that i dont want to and canot go on living in fear. Thanks buddy

[serious]

Yes people are always wary and careful around those who are strong and intelligent.

[serious]

All this bullying and everything will stop once you get over your fear.

[Asker]

Yeah i am starting to just not take things and bullies so serious anymore. Its like a joke to me now in a sense. I have a long way to go but i have at lesst begun the process. Are you saying i was scared of bullies csuse they are strong and smart?

[serious]

" Are you saying i was scared of bullies csuse they are strong and smart?"

I thought so. Yes.

[Asker]

Oh wow but beimg a bully isn't strong its very weak

[serious]

Yes I know bullies are weak