I miss him texting so much, how do I accept?

[Anonymous]

For 3 months , a guy and me texted every day, all day and night. He started slowly ghosting me. Now he only texts about once or twice a day. He will leave me hanging from 2pm until 10am the next day. He never used to do that.

I don't want to cut him our my life because I have to see him at work. Should i just let it continue as it is or mention it to him? What would I say though?

[Paige_288]

I think he's slowly losing interest or something is going on in his personal life like make ask him why and talk to him at work maybe he resized he's being to clingy or yoir being to clingy but he doesn't want anything sirous

[Asker]

You're right. I think we have both been clingy. I don't think he does want anything serious

[Paige_288]

Maybe it's good to take a break like if your always with each other always doing things it might be boring after a while and not find it as fun and interesting

[Asker]

Should i just accept it on his terms? If he messages, respond, and leave it at that?

[Paige_288]

Well I think you should like ask him if and when he messaged you again bc I've bedb in this situation before and it's not good like it wait all day when I could be thinking and doing things thay I love

[Asker]

That's what I don't. I look at my phone all day and night. Then I can't sleep because he's never messages. Once he apologised for keeping me hanging, but never has said it again. So he knows he's keeping me hanging

[Paige_288]

Just block him or don't reply pls domt think that you need him I'm sorry for late reply I just got home

[iam_ss]

How’s your life like outside of this person? What makes you happy?

[Asker]

I don't do anything really. To be honest, I'm lonely. Messaging him takes away that feeling. I crave fur someone to love and love me back. That's what would make me feel happy

[Asker]

For**

[iam_ss]

They say that need to be loved and to love someone is embedded in human nature. Totally feel you on that 🙏🏻

How different would you be feeling about him drifting away if you were engaged in a project that you’re really into— mingling, meeting and getting to know interesting new people along the way?

[Asker]

I visited a friend last just to keep my mind off him. But I kept looking at my phone. I know he doesn't bother with me at all of he's with friends. He will text when he's home. It's more like this obsession I have with him. I'm dreading it when he does stop texting. I know it will end eventually

[iam_ss]

I’m guessing you’ll find someone or something else to obsess over after him.

But it sounds to me like you are at the grieving stage where you gotta feel what you feel and process those emotions. I find that listening to songs that resonate with my internal state and processing my emotions by talking it lit with someone or writing about it helps a lot. What do you think of these?

[Asker]

Yes. You're so right. I have been listening to songs, but I'll try writing things down and detect on them. Thank you so much for taking the time to show a genuine interest in getting me. It's means so much. You've been very helpful ❤

[iam_ss]

No problem and I wish you the best of luck in this 🤗