He rejected me because of communication issues. Now we’re chatting again (he’s replying to my texts) Does that mean that he’s interested again?

[Anonymous]

We had gone to one date. We weren’t friends before all this. When I reached out to him again he was nice and friendly.

[spartan55]

You already posted about this once and received plenty of feedback. Why are you asking again? You girls are so weird...

[Asker]

You said then that he want to talk to me but you didn’t answer why would he want to talk to me?

[spartan55]

Because he wants to talk to you... I mean seriously?

[Asker]

But WHY?

[Asker]

This guy rejected me…

[Asker]

Would I be desperate if I reach out to him again?

[spartan55]

Good lord, you are seriously exhausting. Ask him if you must know.

[spartan55]

NO, not desperate.

[Asker]

Why do you think so? It would be my second time reaching out to him after he rejected me

[spartan55]

So why did you reach out to him after he rejected you?

[Asker]

I don't know..

[spartan55]

So, you don't know, yet you are demanding to know a reason from him... yeah that makes sense.

[Asker]

Tbh I do know. I messaged him because I’m interested in him

[spartan55]

Okay, then he is talking to you for the same reason, don't you think. Why are you needlessly over complicating this?

[Asker]

The difference is that he rejected me

[spartan55]

Well apparently he hit the reset button and wants to move forward. For some reason you won't do that.

[Asker]

Just because he’s replying my texts shows that? What if he’s just friendly?

[spartan55]

I answered this already. A guy won't waste his time to be 'friendly'. Good lord, why don't you ask him out and see what 's up.

[Asker]

I am afraid of getting rejected again. I reached out to him again and he’s replying to me again :D

[spartan55]

You know why he rejected you before, are you not confident that you've fixed that problem?

[Asker]

I have but he still could judge me for that

[spartan55]

You are seriously exhausting. I don't think you are mature enough to date yet.

[spartan55]

How old are you really?

[Asker]

I’m 27. I have gotten different opinions that he’s chatting with me because of attention :/

[spartan55]

Do what you want, you seem to want to talk yourself out of anything with him anyway.

[Asker]

But please tell me genuinely do you think he’s talking to me because he just wants attention?

[spartan55]

No one here can answer that. Jesus, just take a chance and go for it.

[Asker]

I guess I have no other options but I’m just really scared to get rejected again :/

[spartan55]

Rejection is hardly the worst thing that can happen to you. Guys deal with it WAY more than girls... so get to it.

[Asker]

What are the odds that he’s going to reject me again? Wouldn’t be easier for him to just ghost me and not reply to my texts or be super short with me.

[superdonkey]

I kind of had the same issue I think he's trying to figure out a way to get some point across or waiting for some magical word to come out that gives him the okay to pursue

[Asker]

He rejected me. So you think he’s now interested again? Also ehat point would he try to get across?

[superdonkey]

I think he needs a little encouragement from you

[Asker]

Why do you think so? We was friendly with me when I texted him but I don't know if that means that he’s interested.

[superdonkey]

If he's taking the time to talk to you and text you he's interested

[Asker]

I initiated a text conversation once and he replied to my texts. He hasn’t initiated another text conversation. Do you still think that he’s interested?

[Asker]

? :D

[FilmGuy93]

It doesn't seem like it, sorry =(

[Anonymous]

Id say its safe to assume that.

[Asker]

What is safe to assume?

[Asker]

I initiated a text conversation once and he replied to my texts. He was nice and friendly. He hasn’t initiated another text conversation. Do you still think that he’s interested?

[Asker]

? :))

[Opinion Owner]

Because he's making an effort.

[Asker]

He only replied to my texts. Is he still making effort?

[Opinion Owner]

Id say so.

[Asker]

I was afraid that he was chatting with me out of boredness or politness.

[Asker]

? :D