Is it proper to have blocked him?

[Emiebaby]

There is this guy that chatted me up on WhatsApp and won't tell me where he got my number from, but the conversation was going great and then he told me we lived in the same neighborhood 🤔 I was shocked and surprised but I later found out that he got my number from one of my friends and that he has seen me multiple times and was clearly surprised that I knew the people he knows and so on

So... we agreed to meet and we did but he was always trying to touch me playfully and that I don't like 🤧 we accidentally met the next day evening but after talking for a while he said I should give him a hug which I declined but he tried to hug me by force that's when I decided that I would block him when I got home and I did

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[one1wild00]

Good for you. Standing up for your no. Sounds like if you guys went any further he may have not heeded your no's, not respecting a person's no's is equal to not respecting them.

[Emiebaby]

Thank you so much😊 I was kinda feeling down about it like I did something wrong

[one1wild00]

Seems like you have a good head on your shoulders, I think you will be fine. And you did what you had to do for your own piece of mind and probably safety.

[Emiebaby]

I really appreciate ☺ I'm learning how to stand with my "Yes" and "No" cuz I've seen a lot cuz I've allow people's feelings get the best of my judgment

[one1wild00]

Trust your first "gut thoughts" for your piece of mind and safety. they usually are way ahead of your rational mind.

[Emiebaby]

Thank you

[one1wild00]

No worries, I tend to class most gals younger than me as younger sisters or if they are over 18 and have me intrigued potential dates/partners and both get treated with the same respect. that's the primary thing.

[Emiebaby]

Well that's nice😊 I just turned 20

[Sparkie460]

You were absolutely right for blocking him. He obviously doesn't understand that when a woman says no that it actually means No.

[Emiebaby]

Thank you so much ☹️ I've actually felt really terrible thinking that I was weak and stupid for allowing a guy touch me even when it wasn't my fault, cuz I didn't give my consent but he did want he wanted to do then make it look like I was cheap and gullible

[Sparkie460]

If you continued talking with him things could have gotten a lot worse. Don't feel bad. You did the right thing.

[Emiebaby]

Thank you😊

[Sparkie460]

You're welcome

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[WhitneySnow]

You did the right think. He probably just wanted sex and he was tryna hug you when you clearly told him you didn’t want that.

[Emiebaby]

Thank you so much and I thought as much

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome