Was it a good decision in blocking him?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex 7 months ago during these 7 months he has been stalking me. Like ringing and knocking on my door almost every other day, call me anonym, show up where I am with his car drive next to me just to then disappear, tell our mutual friend why is she still online when I was longer online on whatsapp. After 7 months I texted him yesterday I texted hi and he respond fast no minute passed then I asked how he was he said good then I asked what he doing he said household and then he was silent then I texted asking if we can meet up and talk his respond was it's too late, I have to get up early what do you want talk about? Then I didn't text anymore and blocked and deleted him I dont know i feel drainend my friends and family said he coukd have said we can meet up tomorrow or something and it wasn't that late and he always up till 1 or 2 am

[bowenw]

I think he has too many red flags and it is best to move on.

[Asker]

I really wanted to know what he wants why he doing all this

[bowenw]

It's difficult to say, but if he is the jealous type, he may have been watching to see if you were with anyone else, or trying to intimidate you into not seeing anyone else.

[nicfire171]

Yes probably a good decision. Are you okay after all that?

[Asker]

Not really. Just 2 weeks ago he was knocking on my door at 3 am and I woke up very scared. Or that time when a male coworker drove me home after our shift ended he was knocking and ringing my door nonstop and after 1 hour he came back doing it again. I really thought we will talk yesterday so i know what he wants but it isn't love and never was. Its toxic

[nicfire171]

Oh wow. Dm me if you need to talk more!