Once a guy has lost interest, what can a girl do to make him gain the interest back?

[Anonymous]

[Graci_e]

Okay guys don’t like to be chased. It never works, like ever. Especially with quality guys. So whatever you do, don’t chase him.

You need to get busy and become less available. I don’t mean that when he messages you, you set a 5 minute timer and sit there counting down the seconds till you can reply. That’s now how you go about it.

I mean literally get busy. Go out with friends, take your dog for training walks, get a job, pick up a sport or new hobby, clean your room, bake, cook, organise something, etc.. Do anything that needs to be done and pick up a sport/hobby. Get a job doing something you like, for example working at a horse stable. Learn a language and new things. Go to the gym.

Be so busy you forget he’s even messaged you. Try forget about him and move on. If he’s not interested, there’s no point in going after him. You can’t make someone like you - their feelings are completely up to them.

Become a better person, work on yourself and become busy. Get into a good routine. You’ll become a much more desirable person. But always be yourself.

Doing all this could bring him back. But don’t count on it. Try and move on.

[Graci_e]

Also another tip, respect yourself. No thirst traps and don’t let him disrespect you just because you like him. Put him in his place if you have to.

There’s this guy that I was obsessed with, I thought he was so hot. One night he snapped me saying ‘I’m bored’ and I responded with ‘that sucks’. So this dickhead snaps me ‘entertain me’.

So I messaged him and asked him to rate a picture of me so he got all excited. I then sent through the ugliest thing I could find on the internet of someone and asked him what he thought. Obviously he knew that wasn’t me and then I asked him ‘are you entertained now?’. Then gave him a bit of shit for being a dickhead. He thought I was funny.

So I put him in his place, respected myself, made him laugh and flirted a little all at once. You gotta be smart about this stuff haha.

Another thing that happened: this is a guy that gets l the girls and all the attention he wants. I don’t give guys like that attention.

So he snapped me a shirtless pic of him in the mirror (he’s pretty ripped) and asked what I thought. So I told him exactly what I thought of the micellea water sitting on the bench. He was pissed haha.

[ChrisMaster69]

A lot really depends on why he lost interest or if it was there in the first place.

The last thing to do is come over all chasey, stalker and or lost puppy.

think about what likely interested him in the first place, what you were doing, wearing, etc.

Also it may have been something you did, closed him down or he was giving you signals you did not pick up on and he’s just moved on.

if you see him daily or now and then acknowledge him in a polite way, say hi etc, make it obvious you are interested in him without the stalker, crazy woman vibes of chasing him.

[TheLoneTerran]

Neither gender can force the other to do anything. And trying to can come off as desperate and/or not very bright.

[qwert1234]

Depends on how he lost interest.
An example: If he lost interest because of your attitude, either change it or find someone else who agrees with your attitude.

[serious]

Yes it may be possible but it would really depend on what happened.

[peedy]

Good question i don't know and can't help you, listen to what your heart tells you to do

[boobliker]

move on and try some one new nothing

[garykingg]

Nothing much you can do here bud

[skeetskeetskeet]

Quit nagging