Do you care about your reputation?

[jennifer_bloom]

In uni I liked a really smart guy that all the girls liked and one day he got a hair cut and I made fun of it cause I thought it was ugly. Within 48 hours, he got a new hair cut to correct the problem, and he was not attracted to me, just did not want to be socially mocked.

[Waldoe]

My reputation has followed me my whole life, I have made some minor mistakes, but they Never go away... People judge you by your past actions, those actions predict future behavior... So at 72... Yes I still care about my reputation... I am a nice guy, trustworthy and honest and loyal...

[jamesgoldman]

Absolutely takes forever to build and minutes to lose

[Blackcosmo]

Yes I do. I live for other people's opinions and that's all that matters to me. If people disliked me then it would be over.

[jennifer_bloom]

You should try to overcome that, not saying you should not care about your reputation, but you should also care about other things too, your young so I think you can grow in this area.

[Blackcosmo]

It comes from my low self esteem but I'm hoping to change that. Thanks for the advice :)

[ShadezMcgee]

Yes. Which is why I take my work and myself seriously.

You know, that was very rude to say. If you thought it was bad you can just keep that to yourself. Why would he be attracted to someone who is rude and insults him? Furthermore, if you liked the guy, that was counterintuitive.

[baserunner611]

That was mean. My parents also tell you got nothing good, say nothing

[tough_guy]

Hell yes,... I think everybody caress about their reputation to some degree