Shy guy hot & cold after a couple months?

[Anonymous]

He texted me every day for 2 months. He’s admitted he’s very shy and inexperienced. He kept saying he wanted to hang out with me but didn’t ever make plans. When I finally asked him to hang out he kissed me but could tell he wasn’t lying about being shy.

He doesn’t initiate conversation much anymore, but then he’ll text me good morning out of the blue. He still talks about wanting to do stuff with me, tells me I’m sweet and he likes talking to me. When I asked him what’s up he said “he’s confused himself”. At a lost of how to treat him.

[Guy13]

Indecisive men are obviously not for you. Perhaps you should cut your losses and move on?

[Waldoe]

if you like him... take control. make plans and tell him, do NOT ask... for example, "next week, you are taking me to the movies, what movie do you want to see"

[Avicenna]

He probably just doesn’t know how to communicate his feelings

[spartan55]

Why bother? Way too much work. Move on.

[Iron_Man]

Talk it out