I matched with this guy on Tinder a year ago and we got along like a house on fire. He was so respectful, amazing, sweet and we had a lot of intellectual conversations because we both studied the same subject at university. We were gonna start going on dates and he wanted a relationship but I decided we shouldn't as we both were about to go back to university and I didn't wanna do long distance.
Anyway, a year goes by. I forgot about him but I got curious how he was doing so I had a little stalk of his instagram. What I found was kinda shocking. He was following loads of half n4ked girls, onlyf4ns models, corn stars, corn stuff. Which I know is normal for a single dude. But then I found him under the comments of this girl who posted almost n4ked stuff and she had posted a picture of her you know-what practically showing and I found him commenting asking her to add him on snapchat and sending winky faces. I also found him in a few other girls comments. This came as a shock to me because he had been a completely different person with me! Now we're back talking and he wants to take me out next week but I'm worried about starting something with him after what I saw on his insta. Is this a massive red flag and what should I do?
I asked him if he had any red flags after I saw that (stupid Ik but I couldn't admit I snooped) and he just ignored the question and asked if I had any turn offs in a guy... Opinions?
Anyway, a year goes by. I forgot about him but I got curious how he was doing so I had a little stalk of his instagram. What I found was kinda shocking. He was following loads of half n4ked girls, onlyf4ns models, corn stars, corn stuff. Which I know is normal for a single dude. But then I found him under the comments of this girl who posted almost n4ked stuff and she had posted a picture of her you know-what practically showing and I found him commenting asking her to add him on snapchat and sending winky faces. I also found him in a few other girls comments. This came as a shock to me because he had been a completely different person with me! Now we're back talking and he wants to take me out next week but I'm worried about starting something with him after what I saw on his insta. Is this a massive red flag and what should I do?
I asked him if he had any red flags after I saw that (stupid Ik but I couldn't admit I snooped) and he just ignored the question and asked if I had any turn offs in a guy... Opinions?
